Author Lishy Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 Yeah I think I maybe should not be thinking about dating anyone yet and especially someone who makes me feel antsy! Thank you all for your great advice x
Author Lishy Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 This guy is bringing out an unhealthy emotion inside of you. There's an odd dynamtic building up and my gut tells me for you to really take it slow.. Can you explain this a bit for me hon?
Stark Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 I would like to crush this rumour that guys do not like woman who respond quickly when contacting each other. I hate waiting hours for a response when I ask something or get in contact. The only guys that might not like it are guys who are solely after the challenge, and if they are just interested in the challenge instead of you then you're doing yourself a favour. Trust me, guys do not like waiting around for answers any more than you do.
David C. Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 I would like to crush this rumour that guys do not like woman who respond quickly when contacting each other. I hate waiting hours for a response when I ask something or get in contact. The only guys that might not like it are guys who are solely after the challenge, and if they are just interested in the challenge instead of you then you're doing yourself a favour. Trust me, guys do not like waiting around for answers any more than you do. I will second this. We do not like to wait. 99% of the people I text will reply within a couple minutes at least. Then there is that one person who takes anywhere from 10 minutes to no response at all. I guess maybe wait a minute or 2 to reply, but don't put it off for hours.
Author Lishy Posted July 13, 2009 Author Posted July 13, 2009 I was right about him. We were supposed to meet up Saturday night and on Saturday I did not call him as I wanted to see if he called/text me to make arrangements. I was out with my girlfriends and he was out with his friends and we were going to meet up, we had spoken about it all week. On Saturday, no calls, no texts and at 11pm he sends me a text saying "where were you then? I hope wherever you are you are having a good time. Night night" and I tried to call him and he had turned his phone off!! The next day he text me saying "Do you have the hump with me I couldnt bare not to hear from my sexy legs again" What the fk!!!!!!!!! I replied that he didnt text and he blamed me for not texting him and then asked if he could take me out this week!!! I think not Sonny Jim! Is there a name for this type of guy lol
Mary3 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I was right about him. We were supposed to meet up Saturday night and on Saturday I did not call him as I wanted to see if he called/text me to make arrangements. I was out with my girlfriends and he was out with his friends and we were going to meet up, we had spoken about it all week. On Saturday, no calls, no texts and at 11pm he sends me a text saying "where were you then? I hope wherever you are you are having a good time. Night night" and I tried to call him and he had turned his phone off!! The next day he text me saying "Do you have the hump with me I couldnt bare not to hear from my sexy legs again" What the fk!!!!!!!!! I replied that he didnt text and he blamed me for not texting him and then asked if he could take me out this week!!! I think not Sonny Jim! Is there a name for this type of guy lol Well Lishy, He * knows * you wanted to go out because you both talked about it * all week * . Did he bring up that upcoming evening more or did you ? Either way , he KNEW you wanted to go out that night...getting on.. He doesn't meet up with you that night because you are not important to him. I know thats mean but I want you to know the true meaning of a players actions. Its cruel but it STOPS you from continuing to hear BS all the time and trying to decipher everything. For example. He should have asked you out on a real date Saturday night. Even something earlier or later than the time you were / and he was / to spend with your friends. He texts you a short BS message after the fact and then shuts his phone off. If he were worried he would have tried with a voicemail and GIVEN you the opportunity to call him right back . If you want games and BS, continue to go out with him. If you want someone who can ask you out on a REAL date , well it just does not sound like its going to be him. He eats up your attention and offers you NOTHING back. Or very little or next to not enough.:sick:
Author Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Oh he is history now Mary, I told him I know his game and he can play it by himself! Leave him to it now!
Mary3 Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Oh he is history now Mary, I told him I know his game and he can play it by himself! Leave him to it now! He's a fool for playing games with beautiful Lishy
Author Lishy Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Oh Mary you have made me smile! Thank you xx
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