sparkey64 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 ok, I've posted elsewhere on here. here is my synopsis. For those of you who said run like hell, you can now say I told you so. - Im approx 45 and have now been separated for about a year. Was married for about 20. - I started "hanging" with a younger 33yr old co-worker "not dating" immediately after she split from her live in bf about Feb. So its been about 4-5 months. - We never really had a formal date, tho went out for beers after work several times and ended up necking a few times late into the evening. it could have gone further a few times but I called it off a couple of times and once she wasnt feeling well (not an excuse, she puked all over). My reasons for bailing early, the first time she was still living with her stbx (he had just given her her walking papers) and I felt guilty. And the second time, I had to catch a flight for a business trip the next am and hadn't even done laundry yet. But I did bring victoria secret lengere at her request, and her given measurements. - I asked her out a couple of times through all this, and she stood me up... once she says she forgot about and had lost her phone. I believe that one, because she was so friggen drunk that she accused me of taking it when I poured her into her apartment and took off. - the last time was even wierder. She had been giving me the cold shoulder for a week so I approached her, and she went from hot to cold and we went for coffee... then out for beers yet again after work the next day. - I decided to be more forceful and blunt with her. Asked her what happened etc. and she told me that I freaked her out becuase all my buddies were not interested in their g/fs and that I was still married and I didnt want kids (she has one). I countered (told her none of that was true) and SHE SUGGESTED we go on a date the next night. Unfortunatley I already had a date... so we postponed for a couple weeks when we were both avail again. This was a month ago. I said I would call and confirm. So when I call (and I know she only has a cell phone) she doesnt answer. I leave a message, and call her later no answer, call her the next day and no answer. I am clearly being stood up yet again. So... I go on vacation for a week, and when I return its awkward so we don't bother talking. When she walks past my office, she cranks her head away from the door. Clearly avoidance. Then... last week, she shows up at work and is... get this... engaged. Big rock on her hand! wow. She was living with a dude for 3 years - they had blended their families... and now she is engaged after knowing a new guy for about 3 months. too wierd. Half of me is a bit jealous, but the other half is quite relieved. is any of this normal behaviour? curious. Im about ready to turn gay.
Author sparkey64 Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 "she went from hot to cold and we went for coffee" I mean cold to hot...
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 I dated a guy once for about 3 months. He took me out for my birthday and bought me a present. When he signed the card, he signed it "Love Bill". Then he went on vacation to the Bahamas. When he came back he told me he was getting married! I was like, to WHOM????? I thought you were my boyfriend! He told me that he had known this girl a long time and when he saw her in the Bahamas (it was a big group trip with old friends) he decided she was "the one". Then he told me, don't worry, you will find your "one" too! Doh!
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