venkatdabri Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I met this girl at a friends birthday party. We both chatted for quite a long time. We met again and we chat quite often online. I think she likes me. I like her too and i would like to ask her out. We both get together for dancing though not like a date. I would like to ask her out for coffee or dinner. However, I am afraid to ask her out because I think that if I do it might spoil my friendship if she says no. Plus lose a great dance partner. I am just afraid that if she says no then it might be a bit awkward between us and especially since we go to the same dance classes and socials it would be more embrassing. Have any of you guys/girls asked a friend out and then after being rejected have a normal relationship with her as if nothing happened. I would be perfectly ok if she said no but I don't want her avoiding me. In fact this is a problem i have with all of my friends who are girls. I worry that my friendship with them would be spoiled if they say no and also since I dance a lot I would lose a dance partner too.
stepka Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Actually if she says no, your attitude will determine whether it spoils the friendship. If you act like it's no big deal, and go on, she'll follow your lead. If you act pissy, it will spoil the friendship. I know you won't act pissy, so it will be fine.
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