hew Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 This is for my bestfriend who is sitting right here next to me and is not part of this website. i just want her to see some adviice from some other people. Her boyfreind just went away for the summer. And she really misses him and worries about him 24/7 not to mention she has bad anxiety and ocd. She thinks he would find someone else to replace her or realize that he doesnt love her even though i myself, and him tell her that would never happen! i just want to see what someone else thinks of this situation and might have a good word for her to make her feel better. i know it helps getting advice off here so it might help her too. someone please answer im trying my hardest to make her feel better and this might work too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cora Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 If he truly loves her then he would never find another girl to replace her. I understand how difficult it can be when the one you love is away and you have no idea what they are doing, but this is where you have to trust them. You can not control what they do, but you can trust them. If it is meant to be everything will be fine and you have nothing to worry about. If something does happen then you have to accept the fact that maybe it just wasn't meant to be. Stay strong and don't allow those negative thoughts to enter your mind!
Road To Joy Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Tell her to get her ass on LS and join in on all the fun!
Peanut9330 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I'm assuming that you have been dating this guy for a while and since he is reassuring you that he does love you and wont meet anyone else, then you should trust him. If you worry to much you might end up jumping to conclusions and that might jepordize your relationship, Just stay positive and beleive that he truly loves you and that he can be faithful to you. Remember the keys to a good relationship are trust and communication, so if your having a bad day and need some comforting then talk to him i'm sure he would be more then willing to make u feel better and in the meantime till he gets back just have enough trust that he cares about you and wont do anything.
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