lora22 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 If you really think you'll get laid, and you really just want sex, go ahead and call her. If you really aren't super interested in a relationship with this girl, call her. Otherwise, don't, because she really should've called you.
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Hi Lora. I'm not as scummy as you might think. Getting laid would be nice, but I'm getting really tired of feeling like the only one who gives a sh*t. Thanks for the reply.
northstar1 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Hi Lora. I'm not as scummy as you might think. Getting laid would be nice, but I'm getting really tired of feeling like the only one who gives a sh*t. Thanks for the reply. Give her till 730 and then check on her. Either way, you'll be able to get the ants out of your pants.
dreamergrl Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Why do you care so much if she calls if you're just trying to get laid?
lora22 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 LOL I don't think you're scummy, sorry if it came out that way. I guess where I was going with that was, if there's relationship potential, I don't think you should call her, because as you said, you don't want to be the only one who gives a crap. Otherwise, call her and have fun!
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 You'll be able to get the ants out of your pants. What do you mean? You referring to your earlier "advice"?
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Why do you care so much if she calls if you're just trying to get laid? Because I need to know that she wants to, as well. I'm starting to feel like a creep. Got her number. Called her. Met her at work for her lunch. Called her again, set up a date. Took her out to dinner. Texted her. Called her yesterday to set up today. Even though it's not gonna be a serious R, this is still annoying, being the only one making contact.
northstar1 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 What do you mean? You referring to your earlier "advice"? Noooo, just that you are probably feeling ansy about her contacting you. This way, you can hopefully find out what is going on.
lora22 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Because I need to know that she wants to, as well. I'm starting to feel like a creep. Got her number. Called her. Met her at work for her lunch. Called her again, set up a date. Took her out to dinner. Texted her. Called her yesterday to set up today. Even though it's not gonna be a serious R, this is still annoying, being the only one making contact. That is really annoying. I'd guess when you add that (sorry if I missed the part about you're the only one making contact/getting annoyed over it part), I'd say don't call her, especially since you're getting annoyed by it. Since you set this up and she was clearly supposed to call you, I'd say eff her. That's incredibly rude.
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Noooo, just that you are probably feeling ansy about her contacting you. This way, you can hopefully find out what is going on. *Big sigh*... OK, man. Thanks.
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 That is really annoying. I'd guess when you add that (sorry if I missed the part about you're the only one making contact/getting annoyed over it part), I'd say don't call her, especially since you're getting annoyed by it. Since you set this up and she was clearly supposed to call you, I'd say eff her. That's incredibly rude. Thanks for saying that. You've solidified my decision - if she doesn't call, I'm not going to. My guess is she probably will call in an hour or so, but if not, I'm done trying.
D-Lish Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Why do you care so much if she calls if you're just trying to get laid? Because he's wanting to get laid! lol. But Kiz, don't call her if she doesn't call you. If I was in the same boat, and he didn't call- I'd just masturbate, get it over with and then read a good book:eek:
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 If I was in the same boat, and he didn't call- I'd just masturbate, get it over with and then read a good book:eek: Thanks, D-Lish. I'm not going to call. Even if she totally flakes out on me, I'm not gonna let it bother me. She didn't seem to like me, anyway. There are others who will. And hey, the bar I played at last week asked me back! July 31st!
northstar1 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Thanks, D-Lish. I'm not going to call. Even if she totally flakes out on me, I'm not gonna let it bother me. She didn't seem to like me, anyway. There are others who will. And hey, the bar I played at last week asked me back! July 31st! Yeah man, if you don't hear from her, don't sweat it. There are a LOT of flakes in the dating world. I've met my share.
PQ13 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Is there some rule that I'm supposed to have sex with the girl on the third date? It's tonight and I'm curious what you all think. If I sound naive, it's because I haven't actually "dated" in four years. Leykis 101, rule # 9 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Leykis%20101 http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=TOM+LEYKIS+101&search_type=&aq=f
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Thanks to everyone who listened to my whining. Which is all of you. She's coming over and we're gonna watch a flick. Must. Make. Moves.
lorian_smith Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 It's important for you to learn when the right time for sex is , when the right time for kissing is etc. It all boils down to understanding your date better.
D-Lish Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Thanks to everyone who listened to my whining. Which is all of you. She's coming over and we're gonna watch a flick. Must. Make. Moves. I like your whining Kiz! It's not really whining... Make the moves- report back babe. Awesome about your booking-chicks love musicians!
rod_in_gtown Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Kizik! Rock it! I hope you had a nice time! I know I did :bunny::bunny:!!
one goal Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 I see nothing wrong with bangning someone on the third date, or second for that matter. See my other threads. I wanna score with this girl I like.
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 She just left, we didn't have sex, but we did make out and we had a great time.
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