WineCountry Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Dude. If you don't see any long-term potential, don't you think you should talk with her about that BEFORE having sex? Some women are rather naive in that they think that sex = commitment, and so having sex with her might make her feel even closer with you, and make it harder on her when you do decide to break up with her. Of course, if she already knows it's all for fun and no commitment involved; or is the kind of girl who enjoys having sex for fun... then go for it, totally. Thanks for saying that.
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 It's pretty clear to me that she's in it for the fun. I'm coming around to her casual attitude.
northstar1 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I know I'D be down... just not sure about her. Thanks, all, for the replies. Clean the pipes before you go out.
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Clean the pipes before you go out. Is there something about Mary? Yes. Yes, there is.
northstar1 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Is there something about Mary? Yes. Yes, there is. Good man!!!
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Cool. Why'd you wait so long then??? Because I am a pussy and I hadn't quite figured out her M.O. yet. I should have figured, based on her DVDs of porn.
northstar1 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Because I am a pussy and I hadn't quite figured out her M.O. yet. I should have figured, based on her DVDs of porn. Wow. Marry this girl.
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 She's supposed to call me today. I get the feeling that she won't. Pessimism, yeah, but she's kinda aloof. What do you guys think, should I send her a text if she doesn't call by 7pm?
tanbark813 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Wow. Marry this girl. Agreed. What do you guys think, should I send her a text if she doesn't call by 7pm? No. I don't think you should do anything at all but at least call her, don't text. Did you not have firm plans?
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Did you not have firm plans? I called her yesterday and we made plans to watch movies tonight, yeah. But I told her to call me for my address b/c I wanted her to be a little proactive for the first time. Now I just have a nervous, albeit unfounded, feeling.
northstar1 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I called her yesterday and we made plans to watch movies tonight, yeah. But I told her to call me for my address b/c I wanted her to be a little proactive for the first time. Now I just have a nervous, albeit unfounded, feeling. I think you'll be fine dude.
Touche Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Nope, not yet, but we have plaaaans. Okie, dokie. Have fun, Kiz!
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Okie, dokie. Have fun, Kiz! Thanks Touche! Let's hope I can get the F*CK out of my head.
Isolde Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 IMO, the 3rd date is a little too early to have sex if it's someone you see R potential with. Hopefully, she doesn't see any more potential than you do.
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Isolde, it's safe to say she's probably not going to become my girlfriend.
dreamergrl Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Isolde, it's safe to say she's probably not going to become my girlfriend. But it's only right that the two of you are on the same page if you're going to be having sex. Maybe you don't see relationship material here, but you don't know if she does/doesn't until she says so.
Author kizik Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 She doesn't. She hasn't asked me anything about myself, at all. Yet we're continuing to hang out, despite her lack of interest in me as a person. To me, all signs point to sex. We'll see what happens tonight.
motive2002 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Oh Sh__!!! Kizik is gonna GET SOME!!!!!!! Way to go bro WOOT!!!
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Yeah, we can start hollering if I get some. And if that does happen, you'll see a "new" kizik on here tomorrow. What's that thing about if you haven't had sex in over a year, you're a born-again virgin? Consider me a freaking newborn, people.
Author kizik Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 It's 7PM, and she hasn't called me yet. We'd planned on her calling me. It'd be nice for her to show a little interest. Do I call her? Need advice, now! Thanks!
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