redfathom Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I invited a friend to an event in six weeks from now and she replied, "I will have to check my calendar to see if I am already committed to something that Friday." Is this a blow off? I have felt like she has been blowing me off for weeks. We pretty much only communicate via work e-mail now. It's weird she will send me a page long e-mail about what she is doing then I will respond and she will reply with one sentance. If I take the time to reply to her with half a page, I would expect more. Last time she said: "Oh, that's great. Gotta run." Her b-day is this weekend and she hasn't said anything about plans yet...should I ask, or wait to see if she invites me. Then depending on what happen's, I have my answer...
Peanut9330 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Its hard for me to say whether she's blowing you off or not in this case the best thing to do would be to talk to her about it tell her how you feel and see what she has to say otherewise your just gonna keep wondering. If she is a good friend then she will be able to tell u whats going on.
Author redfathom Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Well, I asked her what her plans were for her b-day and she said: Some of her "friends" were going camping and she might go, otherwise she wanted to do something but wasn't sure yet. I told her if she stays in town to let me know so we can do something. She didn't offer to invite me either way (in town or camping).
Peanut9330 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Maybe she's upset with you about something and you dont realize it, she's keeping her distance for a reason and if u want to find out what's going on just ask her the best way for you to get to the bottom of this is talk to her and that way you will know and wont have to keep guessing.
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