Road To Joy Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 With Cancer, I always say there are good Cancers and bad Cancers. Good ones are the sensitive healers who are generally grounded caretakers. The bad ones are take-take-take and like to stop their feet when they don't get their way and are obsessed with money and not feeling taken advantage of. I've actually never dated a Cancer, but I have lots of friends and former employers who represent the two versions above. I agree with this. My ex would always ask me where I found the strength to be so nurturing even after so much sh*t. But, I guess that was in a way her telling me, "Hell, I would have never put up with the sh*t I made you go through." -____- A former best friend of mine is a Cancer. Yes, she's loving and sensitive. But this also has a bad side. She relies on her relationships for almost everything. Every time she gets into a healthy relationship, she blocks everybody else out. And then if that ends, she goes running back to her old friends for comfort. Then the story repeats. Her old friends, including myself, often felt used. For obvious reasons... So, I have to agree with you. There's good Cancers and bad Cancers. But then again I think that's the case for every other sign... except Geminis. They're all irresponsible, careless, party animals and commitment-phobes, who need constant change to be happy. **No offense to anyone, I just have resentment towards my ex. i havent talked to her at all. shes called me and texted me a few times over the past few weeks but i refuse to answer. actually i fail, i did text her once cuz she texted me a single text that said "lake wallumpaupack" i never heard of it so i said what the f*#k is that. and thats all iv said. You really, really need to block her numbers and stuff. Whether you notice this or not, I think the attention she's giving you is feeding your ego. And when she decides to move on and stops contacting you, you're going back to square one. I made this mistake, too. It is not a pleasant experience, buddy. We tend to 'procrastinate' NC, 'cause the attention they're giving us makes us feel good. We know they're not over us and still love us, etc. so it makes us feel better and we get addicted to it, we LET them contact us. But in the long run (and that's the next couple of weeks-couple of months lol), it's just going to be worst. Do you think she's going to be texting you and calling/leaving voicemails forever? No. It's either you respond and you mutually work it out, or you both move on. Otherwise it WILL happen on it's own eventually, whether you want it or not. That's simply the longer, more painful road to take. i know for a fact by that i can be thrown into about 5 or 6 signs, im a born again, haha. 6 times.Hahaha. Well, that's probably where your descendant sign, ascendant sign, etc kick in. It's all a bunch of confusing Astrological mumbo jumbo. lol.
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