tinklebell Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Guys, when a girl asks you out for coffee/drinks/something casual, do you reply with a firm date/plan or do you reply just with an affirmative and wait for the girl to come up with some plan and then coordinate?
kyle1234 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 usually "how does tommorow at noon sound" works just fine
Author tinklebell Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 usually "how does tommorow at noon sound" works just fine So if you weren't that interested, you wouldn't have said that? You might just reply with an open-ended affirmative?
kyle1234 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 i would be interested..i was just making example to answer your question
Thaddeus Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Usually the person doing the asking makes the arrangements.
Author tinklebell Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Usually the person doing the asking makes the arrangements. So if you were interested in going for coffee/drinks, you would have just said yes and let the girl make the plans? So you wouldn't have come up with a date/time/venue?
Lyssa Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I'm a woman and IMO, if I wanted to see the guy (which I have done in my past and had no problems); I would suggest the place, time and date. If he could make it, great but if he couldn't, fine with me. There's always a next time. Most of them would reply with a yes or suggest a different time and date, if they couldn't make it. This back and forth of pondering petty stuff ain't doing anyone any good.
Author tinklebell Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 dude why are you trying to start arguements Huh? What arguments? I was asking further to confirm that I understand the questions. I don't come onto LS to start arguments. There are better things to do than that.
Author tinklebell Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 I once read that when asking a women out the most important thing is confidence. You show confidence by being firm. So my advice would be to say something like. "I'll pick you up tomorrow afternoon, then?" My source for good tips: http://www.datingadvicegathered.blogspot.com/ Thanks. Actually I'm a female. My question was on how to gauge a man's interest in his reply after being asked out by a girl, whether he would say things like "how about Thursday?" or just say yes and let the girl make some plans and then chip in.
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