loveinla Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Hi everyone, I have this burning question for you all... Sat you meet a girl, chemistry is perfect, flirting and all. We did see each other after the initial meeting with friends at a club and everything was right. She keeps texting me asking me out, but cancels at the last minute. 3 times total. Today, I got fed up, and I told her that I wouldnt agree to a reschedule anymore and pretty much told her that I was wasting my time. Yes I know, a bit harsh. What would possibly go through this girl's mind to keep asking me out to cancel??? Thanks Ps: were both in our mid twenties. This all happened within 2 weeks.
Author loveinla Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 she gave different reasons... 1st time was family emergency 2nd time, I actually declined the date, since she made plans to go out with her friends afterwards 3rd time-she had to do smthg for her friend. Everytime an excuse, everytime a reschedule. Why even bother playing around if not interested?
lucy9216 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 So technically she only cancelled twice then right? If so I would say maybe you could give it another shot, but you already told her that you felt she was wasting your time so a next date may be a bit awkward if the both of you decide to actually meet up again. It could all just be bad timming with her, she may be really bad at keeping a good schedule.
Author loveinla Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 I was afraid one of you were gonna say that....I should/could have given her the benefit of the doubt, before writing her off. I actually really enjoy the conversation with this girl, and we have a good chemistry. Kind of a bad thing that I did, but I guess you live you learn right? Im am clueless of the course of action I should take, or even if there is one. Anyone been here before? I was thinking of showing her that I am really interested in her, and that I do not think of her as another random girl met in a bar. (Im a singer, started jotting down some ideas). Allright, it does sound creepy/overdoing it, but that was the only idea that came up to me. Any suggestions appreciated!
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