casio2828 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Ok, I dated my Ex girlfriend for 7 months officially, but really a little over a year because we were pretty much dating I just never asked her out officially. It started in college I knew her before we dated she started to like me so we dated. (story short) We had the best relationship always wanted to be with each other and we never fought, we always agreeded and got along almost to good. I graduated college so once the summer came to an end she had two more years left of school she was getting her Master's and a year younger. So we always talked how we can make this two years of distance (3 hr drive) work It did for 2 months I drove down about every three weeks and spent the weekend with her we got along great. Then we started fighting due to the distance thing and me starting to get jealous of her going out like a normal college person should do and getting hit on by guy's and talking to guy's ( I admit now I got a little to jealous) I always wanted to see what she was up to and it was bother/annoying her. story short she said she can't do this anymore, the fighting and always being in a bad mood so she broke up with me. We fought and agrued about stuff I would hear about for about 2 months after we broke up and I finally gave up and realized there was no point when she has two years left of school. It has been 6 months since the break up I have not spoken or heard from her in like 3 months. I just don't get how she wouldn't want to be friends with me or keep me in her life since we got along so well and I did nothing but treat her like a queen??? She is like fine with not talking to me. Is she doing this because she might want to get back together when she comes back home for good summer of 2010 ?
Thomas X Forever Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Is she doing this because she might want to get back together when she comes back home for good summer of 2010 ? No offense, but why are people doing mental gymnastics lately and connecting crazy dots that aren't even in the same galaxy? This has been happening lately on this board, and I have no idea why. To answer your question, NO she isn't doing that. She would literally have to be absolutely insane and unreadable, for her to do that. Keep up the NC. Find a girl who is closer.
Author casio2828 Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 she will be done with school in like 10 months. Also the reason I ask is she always said I don't talk to any of my friends that aren't down at school unless I am home on break I have nothing to talk to them about. I have just read alot that it is hard for them to talk to you or keep contact if they still have feelings for you. just wanting to here some thoughts. She has messed around with a few guy's but nothing serious I don't mean to sound cocky but I don't think she will find a guy that treated her as well as I did maybe the same but not better. I think she might realize that. since I didn't really do anything besides the long distance relationship
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