lucy9216 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 A different thread made me think of this: Would it be an absoloute turn off if a girl made the first move? or do generally men prefer to make the first move on a girl?
Chicago_Guy Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I wouldn't mind it at all if a girl to whom I was attracted made the first move. If you don't want to ask a guy out, you can at least do things to let the guy know you like him so that he is encouraged to ask you out.
Stark Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Which way do you mean. The first flirtacious move or the first direct move? I like the first it in a way a lot. It sends messages the girl is definetely into me and that allows me to be creative in the way I choose to flirt and make the move - because she won't pull back. Example I was at her house one night and we were sitting on the same couch and she asked is it ok if she lies down, which means putting her feet over me. Cute, and gave me many many ways to directly flirt back to lead to the kiss. The second way, has only happened once, I liked it, but more of a turn on way where it just results in sex, there and then, where she asked me to walk her to her house, and as soon as she reached the door, said come here, grabbed me and kissed me and pulled me inside.
Bejita463 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 A different thread made me think of this: Would it be an absoloute turn off if a girl made the first move? I dig it when that happens. I find it very flattering, even if I am not interested.
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