Author gmogmo321 Posted July 12, 2009 Author Posted July 12, 2009 Given the circumstances, lets just hypothetically say if you guys were in my shoes and your girlfriend came back to you and was extremely apologetic. She cries for days about how sorry she is and how she misses the good times, would you guys accept the apology and start it over or is it already too late?
gavinus Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 This has recently happened to me!! She dumped me, NC for awhile, we came back into contact, she cried, said she wanted to be with me.......dumped me again, one week before I left for my holiday with my family, 2 weeks before my birthday....then she sent me a B'day present last week!! My friend I am coming to realize painfully, some women use tears as manipulation. If she truly loved you she would not of got with another guy, if you take her back she will do it again, don't listen to words or tears, people get tears when they peel an onion! Actions are all that count and her actions have shown what she thinks of you....stay strong
Giha Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 Given the circumstances, lets just hypothetically say if you guys were in my shoes and your girlfriend came back to you and was extremely apologetic. She cries for days about how sorry she is and how she misses the good times, would you guys accept the apology and start it over or is it already too late? Hell no. How am I supposed to take back a woman who's now ****ing one of my oldest friends? I wouldn't touch her with a fork. Yes I am in love with her, but it's gonna take alot more than a few tears for me to even consider the possibility of touching again what my "friend" is now touching. I hope this answers your question
WiseOne1 Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 Given the circumstances, lets just hypothetically say if you guys were in my shoes and your girlfriend came back to you and was extremely apologetic. She cries for days about how sorry she is and how she misses the good times, would you guys accept the apology and start it over or is it already too late? Dependz on whats shes done with the other guy since we broke up, if its more than the kissing and hugging than theres a 3% chance that I would take her back, trust me, I had a ex come back before but I didn't take her back due to some basis. Me and you both are the same age, but I've been through this twice before, and im going to ask you a question.....If a girl you did not love did that to you, and said all the things your ex has said to you, what would you think? A. That she thinks your a fool ? B. Shes trying to have her cake and eat it too? C. Shes sincere and really can't help it? I can promise you, you would tell someone you didn't love to kick rocks, I used that hypothetically speaking questions to make you see how silly what your ex is saying sounds. Get the point?
Chrome Barracuda Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 Dude she's sleeping with other people and your so enamored with this woman your willing to take the disrespect all to be with her. Dude I was weak like that once for women, but I tell you I'm different now, and not much gets past me. once the red flags start popping up I end it. because we all know how it's going to end. She'll state he's just a friend. I still love you and guess what in the end she'll betray you like they all do. So you know what... You be strong for you, make decisions for you. And you make your own future. No woman should ever , and I mean ever treat their man like she treats you. She does it because she gets away with it and you let her!
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