If a girl has intrest in you..will she make the first move even if you dont?

[Thaddeus]

I have a huge fear of rejection. Does this make me a coward? Probably so, and I'll admit it. It's just always been this way. Haven't figured out how to change it yet.

We all do. That's nothing new, nor is it a reason to stop trying.

 

The question remains: When are you going to stop waiting for stuff to happen and actually take action, take responsibility?

[Cora]

Everybody is afraid of being rejected.

 

You will miss out on quality men. You will still get the *******s though.

 

There has never been a shortage of those in my life! HA

 

Seriously, I do realize I'm not doing myself any good by being this way, but it's difficult to change. Until I am able to change this, I guess I'll just have to continue dealing with the *******s.

[kizik]

Cora just got laid the other night. Seems to me she's doing fine just letting the dudes pursue her.

[Cora]

We all do. That's nothing new, nor is it a reason to stop trying.

 

The question remains: When are you going to stop waiting for stuff to happen and actually take action, take responsibility?[/QUOTE]

 

Probably when I learn to grow up and stop being such a coward I guess. Working on that at the moment, but it proves to be a lot more difficult than I imagined. Maybe someday I'll grow some balls and just go for it.

[Cora]

Cora just got laid the other night. Seems to me she's doing fine just letting the dudes pursue her.

 

Thanks Kizik, but if this guy is a quality guy and not just another ******* is yet to be seen.

[kizik]

Thanks Kizik, but if this guy is a quality guy and not just another ******* is yet to be seen.

 

Oh... hmmm... Cora, maybe the better plan for next time is to find out if he is a quality guy before you sleep with him. Then everyone wins.

 

[Cora]

Oh... hmmm... Cora, maybe the better plan for next time is to find out if he is a quality guy before you sleep with him. Then everyone wins.

 

 

Sigh....Yes, very true. He sure puts on a good act if he isn't a decent guy. I know, I'm very gullible....working on that as well.

[Thaddeus]

If any of you ladies want to sneak a peek into the lives of men, I recomend reading " Self-made Man" by Norah Vincent. This has probably been the most illuminating look at Male-Felame relations I have EVER coem accross. The author ( a very masculine Lesbian ) was challanged to stop complaining about the male species untill she herself had lived a mans life. So thats exactly what she did. She got herself a professional make over to look like a slightly enfeminate man . Google the title and look at the cover . Both of those people are her! I promise if any of you read it, you will have a tremendous respect for the trials and tribulations that are a mans life.

I haven't read the book but heard an interview with her on the radio. She was one gutsy lady (still is, I imagine). She got a lot of flack from the feminist community over her book as well and is still dealing with that.

 

And you're right; after having lived as a man she now has little patience for how women behave, the whole "chase me" and "rules" schtick.

[Trialbyfire]

You're not funny.

 

Well maybe it is funny to hear Cinderella types accuse others of being Peter Pan types.

 

Funny how women expect men to play their traditional role of provider but it is wrong for a man to expect a woman to play her traditional role of nurturer.

Sure I'm funny. Just ask me!

 

I totally embrace every bad stereotype of woman and more! Get used to it. If you want to get laid, you'd better be prepared to be used and abused by women. I think this is a perfect arrangement!

[Trialbyfire]

I truly respect any woman who is mature enough to not use a man like that.

Such women are rare.

 

*******s are not born , they are created.

 

I just wonder don't women care about their brothers and sons? Are they ok with men ending up depressed , addicted to drugs, committing crime, committing suicide, falling behind in school?

No, we don't care about any man, just ourselves. Get used to it.

[kizik]

I just wonder don't women care about their brothers and sons? Are they ok with men ending up depressed , addicted to drugs, committing crime, committing suicide, falling behind in school?

 

Dude, what are you talking about? Not only are you making a sweeping, ignorant generalization, but that has nothing to do with this thread!

 

Go start your own... "Why Do Women Hate Their Sons and Brothers?"

[kizik]

Stop trolling!

 

(Please, no one feed this dude his billy goats gruff.)