rickster11 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I have a g/f that i been with for 4yrs. Since i been with her she has always had the lack of trust for are relationship. Well this weekend a friend of mine decided to send a message to my g/f at the time through myspace. Acknowledging her with information about me involving girls around my family and friends. Now the problem is she believes this guy word instead of mine and ive been with her for 4yrs. She hardly know this other guy. I want her back but this lack of trust and her having to believe other peoples word, instead of her love. Pushes me away of trying to attempt to ask her back. I tryed calling her she ignores my calls. I tryed txtn her she ignores my txt. She said she is done. Do i keep trying to chase her, leave her, or do something about this situation that i'm in. If you have some advice of this problem that i have just said. Acknowledge me and let me know what you think:bunny:
Peanut9330 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 usually lack of trust has something behind it maybe she feels insecure when it comes to herslef or maybe something happend in her childhood that leads her to not trust people. The only thing you can do in this situation if you truly care about her is go to therapy and find out the real reason why she dosent trust you and work on the issue togehter. That way you both can get past this problem and move on to a new chapter in your lives becasue once you get past the turst issues the relationship between you guys will get much better. If you guys love each other and really want to be togheter that therapy is worth a shot.
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