yonex Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 So we all know love sometimes makes us do crazy things. Would anyone like to share their experiences of what they went through when they were deeply in love? I'll start off with mine. I met a vacation fling and fell in love with her. After the vacation all seemed not well. After much thought I drove about a 3 hour drive to her city to drop a book off for her at her work. Really I don't even know if she got it...sadly
lucy9216 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Now was this love or lust? you only saw her for the weekend right?
Author yonex Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 You have nothing to share? I think it was love. No it was for about a week I was with her...
lucy9216 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Oh about a week that could be love at first sight Anything crazy I have done for love to share with ya hmmmmm....... well I did submit a post today about how I let my ex walk all over me in hopes of getting him back . Don't think that counts though, but I have done alot of things out of love for someone but can't think of anything too crazy right now hmmmm.... maybe I will think of something later.
Author yonex Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Wow no one has done anything crazy for love? I feel so terrible now...
Sosilent Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 I guess some people arnt as crazy as they used to be. Well I can tell you the craziest thing I've done was nearly getting a restraining order.
lucy9216 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Well I think majority of my relationships I have been on the other end of crazy, in the sense that two of my exes actually chased me in my car for a few miles, almost like a high speed chase having to cut corners and make sharp U-turns in order to get rid of them. That is really crazy but it wasn't me doing the crazy
thewingwoman Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 Mine was mostly a subconscious thing, and when I realized I was doing it, I stopped... After we split, I found myself continually going to places that I knew I'd probably see him at... Getting to certain bars early, but staying later that I normally would because he usually showed up there late. Or always barhopping wondering where I'd run into him at that weekend. Ugh, I'm pretty ashamed of all that.
Author yonex Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 If someone could help me out here please. From my initial post you may find that I'm quite curious if the book got to her. I tried contacting her work but could not get through. I know her cell number but I know she will not be happy to hear from me. If I did call her I was thinking of saying "I know I'm probably upsetting you by calling you but I just needed to know something." What do you think I should do?
colosseum Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 If someone could help me out here please. From my initial post you may find that I'm quite curious if the book got to her. I tried contacting her work but could not get through. I know her cell number but I know she will not be happy to hear from me. If I did call her I was thinking of saying "I know I'm probably upsetting you by calling you but I just needed to know something." What do you think I should do? How do you know she'll not want to hear from you? Depending on how long ago this fling was, could you not just call her up and say "hey, how've you been? Just wanted to see if you wanted to catch-up some time." As per my story: In school I climbed onto the roof of my gf's house at night to sneak into her room on the 2nd floor. Then I got busted one night and got my *** kicked, lol! Not good. :laugh:Romantic while it lasted though, haha.
lora22 Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 If someone could help me out here please. From my initial post you may find that I'm quite curious if the book got to her. I tried contacting her work but could not get through. I know her cell number but I know she will not be happy to hear from me. If I did call her I was thinking of saying "I know I'm probably upsetting you by calling you but I just needed to know something." What do you think I should do? How do you know she wouldn't be happy to hear from you? If you know that for an absolute fact, it seems obvious to me that it doesn't matter if the book got to her, and that you shouldn't call her. If you do decide to call her anyways, please don't say anything so self-deprecating as "I know I'm probably upsetting you by calling you." It's really not necessary to criticize yourself to this girl (or anyone for that matter). Simply ask if she received it (assuming that this happened recently enough that she would remember you), and wish her well. Edit: a self-deprecating comment like that is also bound to annoy her.
Author yonex Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 Thanks for sharing you're story! And thanks for the replies Well its a long story, but I'll try and sum it up as best I can in the little time I have. So after the vacation I had her myspace, and then for some reason it didn't go well after that, like I said I guess it was just a fling. To me though it wasn't as you can see what I have done not to mention the constant stalking of her my space page which is why I finally deleted her. This whole situation actually is getting so sick. She told me it was not going to work out a couple times and I guess I just fell apart and hoped for miracles. Some days ago I texted her and she responded something along the lines of don't text me again or something. The curiosity is really killing me though, and it was an expensive book and I traveled a great distance to her work, so this is why I was really tempted to call her. If she received it then I will move on.
yeex Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Man, sorry to say this, but you are sounding really desperate with this chick. Why would you drive that distance to drop off a book? Couldn't you have just mailed it to her? Does she know you drove that distance to drop off a book? If she does not, I would not mention that. That sounds stalkerish. Let this one go and forget about the freakin' book and move on.
Els Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Different cultures, I see. His action would be considered romantic and sweet in mine. Stalking would be something like persistently calling her even though she said she wanted you to hold off.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 So then I guess I'll never know if she received the book. That was a waste of money then.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 no....It was part of a vintage series and it was expensive. But that's not the point. I would rest much easier knowing it was in her possession, and could let this go much easier.
bac Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 why are you afraid of frank and open communication with her? it is the right thing to do.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 Did you bother reading the entire thread? If you didn't I don't blame you because it was long. I texted her and her response was don't text me again.
Bayern Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 You know where she lives. In all honest, sorry to hear that. I guess it's kind of crazy, but when I was much, much younger (I think I was in 8th grade) I put it all on the line for some girl. Man, I wrote a poem, bought a valentines day card and gave it to her on valentines day. It was kind of silly, but I was pretty young...and I got shot down.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 You know where she lives. In all honest, sorry to hear that. I guess it's kind of crazy, but when I was much, much younger (I think I was in 8th grade) I put it all on the line for some girl. Man, I wrote a poem, bought a valentines day card and gave it to her on valentines day. It was kind of silly, but I was pretty young...and I got shot down. What makes you think I know where she lives?
Bayern Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 What makes you think I know where she lives? I thought you said you drove to deliver it to her. I figured it was her house. Whoops.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 haha...if I did that I would be posting this from jail. If I pursue this anymore I might end up their too...
lora22 Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 Different cultures, I see. His action would be considered romantic and sweet in mine. Stalking would be something like persistently calling her even though she said she wanted you to hold off. That simple act (I think) is romantic, and Hollywood certainly uses things like that to show how romantic guys are. I think it was the other stuff added in perhaps that would shade someone's perception of that act? Plus, since she made it clear that she's not interested in him and didn't want to hear from him.
Author yonex Posted July 10, 2009 Author Posted July 10, 2009 ah lora hello again! I took your past thought of if I did call her what to say. You said if I do, not to say something self-deprecating. I've had some conflict with this since some ladies say I should say I'm sorry for calling ect...which is true since I know it would upset her. Anyways this would be the last time I could assure you. Its just for verifying if she indeed did get the book.
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