heatherb16 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Is this normal? It has only been three days of NC, 3 weeks since the break up, and I'm already wanting him back. I felt so good the first day. But now all I'm thinking is that I want him back. I really believe there would be a change in our relationship if we tried it again. I just have no clue if he is feeling the same way. I'm probably just wasting my brain cells thinking about this all the time, because I think he might be completely done. However, there is still something in me that is telling me we are meant to be. I don't know what to do. Should I stop feeling these things? If so, how do I go about doing that? As far as getting out and doing things, I have been good with that. I've kept myself busy for these past 3 days. Just don't know what to do now.
wow123 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Talk to him. Maybe you need to hear him say it is over for good so that you can move on.
Hoosier09 Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Today was my first day of LC...I can email in a week. It's unbearable. I just want her back. I wouldn't talk to him. Give him several weeks.
mr.dream merchant Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 I was in this position during my breakup. And to be honest, NC was NOT helping. I really needed to hear it from my GF's mouth that we were over. So that day, two weeks ago, over the phone, when she was cursing at me, telling me I was a sucky BF, crying when I called her baby, just acting ****ing crazy, I knew for sure that it was over. And the moment I got off that phone with her, I couldn't feel anymore Heartache. Since then I haven't shed a single tear, and I won't. Because I can't. I can't feel that pain and that yearning for her back after hearing what she told me. I'm just disappointed. When I think of her, I think of the good times we had, and then I think about that phone conversation. Then I think about what a ****ing lie the last couple months of our relationship was. It really helps in the healing process when you know that person really doesn't give a **** about you. It helps you stop giving a **** about them. So maybe you need to talk to your BF, so you can have some kind of closure.
Author heatherb16 Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 We have talked. I just know that at any point he may ask for me back. Maybe not. But I guess I'm just afraid to hear it for good.
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