Battlewax Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 I don't feel bad about it. It kinda gave me the chance to figure things out. I noticed a couple of things when talking to her. One of the biggest sticking points that broke us up was when my self confidence was shot and I spiraled into a depression after I lost my job. Now I'll be working 2 jobs starting in 2 weeks. Things are really looking up for me and I have a positive vibe. The more I talked about random stuff, the more she became saddened as time went on. She's in graduate school and had several weeks off but she's been busy with work and moving. I said, you have your trip coming up that should be fun. She just sighs as says I hope so. That one really caught me off guard, she's been looking forward to this for months. It's so weird. I didn't pry, I just let it go and smiled. I didn't bring up anything about the relationship, I just wanted to touch base see how things were going. Of course I was also trying to figure out how I felt. I do miss her. I kind of feel that I'm in a better place. It's day to day, but the past couple of days were good. I mention the saddened thing. It's almost like she was expecting me to fall apart or something. I guess what they say is true, living well is the best revenge. I use that for lack of a better term, I do care a great deal and do not wish anything bad to happen to her. Of course I could be totally off base, but that's the vibe I picked up. It started off really well, then I just watched her become more and more saddened. At the end she just kinda moped to her car. I told her to have a good day and we'd talk another time.
bookit Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Sounds like that went very well. Who broke up with who though and who initated the meet up?
Author Battlewax Posted July 6, 2009 Author Posted July 6, 2009 She broke up with me, I initiated the meet up. I initiated it because I ignored one of her texts last week. I also had a good weekend so I was in the right frame of mind. I know her well enough that I know she wont initiate contact. Funny thing is, I actually thought "Oh dammit why did I do that." I honestly walked in thinking I was being an idiot and would leave aching. I got the opposite. Weird
bookit Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Good result then. Time will tell how she feels whether she gets in touch with you or not. Sounds like your happy either way anyway.
chslt77 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 nice job man. im actually meeting my ex for coffee tomw. i broke up with her but do want her back. i initiated the meeting so i guess well see where it goes. im going to say nothing about us and our relationship and especially nothing about what i want. probably just talk about our 4th of july weekends and the rest of the summer. hope it works
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