Peanut9330 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now about a month ago he broke up with me for no reason and out of nowhere, he called me in the morning while I was at work and broke up with me. I was very hurt and confused because I didnt understand why and he refused to tell me. This past week he told me he made a mistake and wants to be with me I told him I need to know the truth he told me he felt like I stopped loving him but it turns out that he started dating someone else while we were broken up. We worked out the issues and decided to get back together but he never broke up with the other girl until I called him out about it and it turns out the she spent the night by his house during the time that we were back toghether and he claims the only reason that happend becasue he didnt know what to tell her, He invited me and her by his house so he can break it off with her in front of me he didnt speak to her since then, I didnt get back with him but he's begging me to and I really do love him we put so much into this relationship I just want to know if anyone has ever been in a similar situation where you want to frogive your partner becasue you love them so much but at the same time were afraid? is it worth taking that chance again? my heart tells me one thing and my brain another..... Is it better to just move on? I know I can frogive him becasue I truly love him.... does anyone have any helpful advice on what to do?
Rollercoasterr Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 The guy is a slimeball. It is NOT that girls fault that he started dating her while he was broken up with you. And who knows if that is actually the truth, he could have been dating her before be broke up with you, and chances are that's the reason why he did it "for no reason". And for you to actually go over there and do a group break-up is just as disgusting. She had no idea, she's not to blame. It's him. If he did it once, he'll do it again. He's already shown you that he's capable of dating other people behind your back. So if you get back with him, you're just asking for it, honey. Sorry to say that, but it's true.
Author Peanut9330 Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 I know he is a slimeball and I do agree that what he did was wrong and i'm sure he would do it again in the future. However even though he did that I do still have feelings for him but I dont want to take him back i'm just having a hard time dealing with the betreyal and the pain it caused me like I said i'm torn between what my heart feels and what my brain is telling me and I know that time will make everything better but in the meantime i'm looking for a little support.
Javelin Posted July 10, 2009 Posted July 10, 2009 I know he is a slimeball and I do agree that what he did was wrong and i'm sure he would do it again in the future. However even though he did that I do still have feelings for him but I dont want to take him back i'm just having a hard time dealing with the betreyal and the pain it caused me like I said i'm torn between what my heart feels and what my brain is telling me and I know that time will make everything better but in the meantime i'm looking for a little support. My ex-girlfriend cheated in May and I tried very hard to work it out with her, but it's just not the same. How anyone can stay with a cheater is beyond me... Do yourself a favor and leave him... Take sometime to recover then find a guy that will respect you and treat you the way that you deserved to be treated! No one should have to go through that bullsh*t.
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