morton1 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 my girlfriend for 6 years since i was 15 has left me about a month ago weve broke up befor but only for a coplue of days but now its been for a month and she says she dosent love me anymore im going out of my mind it started when she got all of her stuff out of the flat then i relised she might not be coming back but i cant have it any other way i want her back so bad im paceing up and down crying punching and kicking furniture and yestday i begged i cryed and cryed and begged i cant go on without her i know i will get my self in troble with the police i could not let this go no matter what we have a 3 yr son together who i love very much aswell but i dont miss him no where near like i mish her i dont like the fact that i dont know what she is doin and when i think what she could be doing i start crying jumping up and down paceing punching and kicking stuff i cant speak to pepol either no matter how hard i try i can not get hear out of my head i i find it hard to speak to pepol i just give a yea or no ive allways been paranoid about cheating my mum cheated and left my dad after 25 years i seen my dad in such of a state and now im the same but i think im worse no matter what i can no way go on without her. o and i forgot to say im going a sleep about 7 in the morning and wakeing up like 3 in the afternoon ovisley i have lost my job im heavily in debt with bt i have no friends no money
MrMayI Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 you are going to have to pull yourself together. don't think of "not being able to go on". you can go on, and you will. it may be hard, but you will. put the focus on your son and yourself. even if you have to get prescribed something to alleviate the pain you are feeling, do it. is there a family member you can go and live with? that'd be a good thing for you right now, i believe.
tojaz Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 HEY GUNNY!!! OVER HERE GUNNY!!!! YEA THIS GUY RIGHT HERE, HE NEEDS YOU GUNNY!!! If there is one thing I've learned the hard way, is that panicking and begging and pleading have the exact opposite effect of what your looking for. Get your head on straight, and tell us what happened. NOW, WHERE IS GUNNY?? TOJAZ
LisaUk Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 BREATHE! We know how you feel really. We have been where you are right now. BREATHE, you need to calm down, as hard as that is you need to calm down. Start at the start and tell us what happened and what she said about why she has left. We will see you right, we will help you through this. Take a look at Lupa's thread, start at the beginning, you may well see yourself! I did!
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