FeedingOnFever Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Hi, I haven't been on here in a really, really long time. It's been just about 7 months since the breakup, and it did get easier day by day... but I like a lot of other people am glad I did NC. I started NC in late March and only broke it once to tell him to stop pocket-calling my mother at 3 a.m. Lame, right? Recently to get out my residual resentment, I wrote a letter detailing the anger I felt at him, then asked a few of my go-to people if I should send it or not. One said I should do what I feel would make me happiest, and if sending it was that, to go for it. One suggested I not sink to his level, and that living my life happily without him was my prerogative. One basically said she wasn't sure any advice she had would be good in this situation due to her lack of experience but that she would support me whatever I decide. I love my go-to people. I think ultimately I don't need to send it though. It's the same concept as "Post here instead of contacting your ex" and it did feel therapeutic to do so. Strangely enough I would NOT want him to write back, even if it was to say sorry. I just don't want to hear from him. So I guess, even though I would like for him to realize what a jerk he was, it's not important enough for me to break NC and risk opening a can of worms here. A nice guy would be great, but I'm digging being single right now too. I guess I'm just generally okay with my life right now. Not all the time, but most of the time. That's good enough for me for now. Peace and love to you all.
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 kudos for u live long and prosper(throwing up the leonard nimoy sign)
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