saddy Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 My story is complicated: I moved to the US with my wife 1 year 1/2 ago now. About 6 months ago, we broke up since she met somebody else at her work. I decided to stay, began a depression and went to see a psychologist. After a few months, I met a girl. My situation wasn't simple, since I was still married so that I could keep my work visa. My wife was planning to leave the country by the end of the year and that meant that I would lose my visa at the same time. I felt really stressed and began to look intensely for a job that could sponsor me a new visa. Last week, I finally got the job I had been waiting for such a long time. I should be happy, right? But I'm just not... I spent the weekend with my girlfriend but it looks like I had nothing to tell her, like there was no chemistry. I also keep on asking myself if I had been right to stay here and look for a new job. I don't have many friends here and the main reason why I wanted to stay was my girlfriend... but if it doesn't work with her? Is it worth it that I stay? I also don't understand why my mood is that way? I feel empty and hopeless like when I was depressed...
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