b3nx Posted July 5, 2009 Posted July 5, 2009 So I am a 22 year old male. Me and my gf just spent the weekend away together. We are only a new couple around 6 weeks together. We are so perfect together, finally happy to find a girl who knows how to respect me and not take my kindness for granted. The problem is we are getting so close that small things worry me. Such as before we left to come home, my gf was telling a funny story and I only just smiled because I was trying to pack my bag and she said something like you had to be there.. Now I feel terrible, we were running late and she was frantic and we did not kiss or hug much and I got this stupid feeling in my head that she was annoyed that I kinda brushed off what she was talking about. I really did not mean to I am not that kinda of guy, but also on the other hand I feel like the biggest wimp for worrying so much, everyone says it is the girls that worry not the guys.. Am I silly to worry about a small joke that I did not really laugh at? She says I am the most amazing thing that has happened to her and I guess i worry about small stuff cause I don't want to loose her.. Help?
Nemoralis Posted July 5, 2009 Posted July 5, 2009 Yep, you're silly. If you two show each other how much you care on a regular basis, then don't worry about how you react to every little thing. My guy is constantly showing me his affection and vise versa, so I'm never worrying if I am reacting appropriately to every little thing he says. On the off chance that he doesn't get the reaction he's looking for, I know he still knows how much I care for and appreciate him. Chill out.
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