daileyburgboy Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 I posted previously about my situation and got some help (Indecision#2) One response was what I was feeling , she doesn't even know herself what she wants. Well, she emailed me last week and called my house and hung up come to find out. I chat with her several times last week through emails. I have found Salvation through all of our mess which as she said makes her so happy along with me, but my question is this. Is she just stroking her ego and lessening her guilt with these words in her emails. She's told me the house isn't the same, it feels good talking to You. I have really wanted to talk to you. I am truely sorry for missing your nieces coming child,sent you a smiley face w/ your bill and I Love you twice. She actually picked up a book from the library and dropped it off at my house. I told her in one of the first emails is she wanted to get together in a week or two that maybe we could. She says yeah maybe we could to that. Then in anohter email she says that she would like to get up and talk. She emailed me a couple of weeks ago and I never replied too that one. I will also say that NC has worked on her. Also the don't show them your true feelings. I've not told her once that I sitll love her just Take Care. She's went so far to say that you sound so different and sound like your doing good. A couple weeks ago she told her daughter that I was her soul mate and she cant' see her future without me. She by the way was having an affair is why I ultimatley left her and she still to my knowledge is with this same guy. Your thoughts on her state of mind.
lizzy_09 Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Is she just stroking her ego and lessening her guilt with these words in her emails. She's told me the house isn't the same, it feels good talking to You. I have really wanted to talk to you. These are some possibilities I could come up with.... Ever heard of the quote "Absence makes the heart go fonder."? It could be that the guy she's seeing on the side doesn't give her much attention. So, she's checking out on you. It could also be the possibility that it didn't work out between the guy she's seeing on the side and she finally realized that you were better then the other guy. I've not told her once that I sitll love her just Take Care. She's went so far to say that you sound so different and sound like your doing good.Don't try ever try to show your emotions towards her. It's good that she noticed. Just make sure to keep your feelings to yourself or she might use that against you. A couple weeks ago she told her daughter that I was her soul mate and she cant' see her future without me. She by the way was having an affair is why I ultimatley left her and she still to my knowledge is with this same guy. Well, her colors do show. So, if she gives you all that crappy talk, maybe you should feed her with her own medicine. :laugh:Geess......I'm totally evil.
nastyapple Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 I think you are doing the right thing when you are keeping your feelings to yourself. It sounds like it's making her question how well you are doing on your own and keeping the interest there. She may genuinely miss you, and realise that she made a mistake and that you're the one for her. If this is the case, I would just wait it out and let her make the move... She could on the other hand just be using you because she's bored with the other guy. It's hard to say but just let her make all the effort. She's the one who mucked up.
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