dmb05 Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Hey guys.......I work at a fruit farm where we sell peaches, berries, and other fruits. Today we had a man and wife, and his 2 daughters come in. My boss always tries to get me dates with good looking girls and he did the same today. He asked them how old they were. One was 20 and her sister was 16. He told the girls about me about to graduate college, me playing drums, etc. The 20 year old girl and I kinda talked and she asked where I went to college and stuff. They eventually left and I didn't get any information from her. She was absolutely gorgeous and I just didn't do anything like an idiot. Her mom kinda joked around with me saying my boss wasn't making my job very easy today lol. So they went to our 2nd place to pick more fruit. I called my buddy that works and told him to tell the girl I'd like her number and if she'd like to stop back by I'd get it from her. He ended up telling her and she wrote her name and number down for me. So, now I have the girl's name and number. I would love to go on a date with the girl, but I'm not sure as to when I should call or text her. Should I wait till tonight, or tomorrow? If she gave me her name and number, it does seem likely that she was interested in me too right? It's just been a while since I really had to do any work because the girls have always came to me, so I'm a little rusty. Any advice would be appreciated!
Island Girl Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 It's the 4th - assume she is busy tonight with her family or friends and call her tomorrow early evening. Congrats on getting the number - there's no possibility without that step and you got it so there's a good chance you'll be having a date!
Author dmb05 Posted July 5, 2009 Author Posted July 5, 2009 Okay so we've been texting back and forth quite a bit. She goes go the University of Pennsylvania though and I live in Arkansas. I'm really not sure how that would work out. She's pretty much only down for the summer. But anyways, I ended up asking her if it would be okay if I called her tonight and she said yes, that would be awesome. So, when I call, I'm just going to talk for a little bit and see how things go, and before I get off the phone, see if she would like to do dinner and a movie or bowling this weekend. Sound good?? I'm really surprised that she gave me her number, wants me to call, and all that if she lives mainly in Pennsylvania. Maybe she just wants a nice hang out or something while she's down for the summer?
Author dmb05 Posted July 6, 2009 Author Posted July 6, 2009 So good news! I called and we talked for about a half hour. Before I got off I asked if she'd like to go out to dinner and a movie this weekend. She said she was leaving Friday to start a week long class but she would love to go anytime this week. So tomorrow or Wednesday night we are going out!
Island Girl Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 So good news! I called and we talked for about a half hour. Before I got off I asked if she'd like to go out to dinner and a movie this weekend. She said she was leaving Friday to start a week long class but she would love to go anytime this week. So tomorrow or Wednesday night we are going out! YAY!!!!! Good for you!! :bunny:
Author dmb05 Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Made plans last night for tomorrow night. We're going out to dinner and then to a movie. I feel weird going out with a girl that's going to be leaving for Pennsylvania for college in a month, but I guess we could just go on a few casual dates and have some summer fun?
Island Girl Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Made plans last night for tomorrow night. We're going out to dinner and then to a movie. I feel weird going out with a girl that's going to be leaving for Pennsylvania for college in a month, but I guess we could just go on a few casual dates and have some summer fun? You never know what can happen. Maybe a few weeks of fun and sun - I met my husband and thought he'd get "fired" in a couple of weeks but would be fun to hang out with until then...he thought the same thing. Over 8 years later we're still together come hell or high water (HA! Literally! ). You just never know.
Author dmb05 Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 Okay so the date last night went great! Went to eat and to a movie. She wanted to pay for her half of dinner but I didn't let her. So when we got to the movie theater, she ran to pay for tickets before I could catch up to her. She said she had a great time, we hugged before I left, and she said when she got back from her internship class next week she'd love to go out again!
startingover2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 Sounds great, did you kiss her? Is there any chance that she is looking for some summer fun, i.e. sex. Many woman although they might not admit it want to have a casual fling with someone that they will never see again. Just a thought
Author dmb05 Posted July 9, 2009 Author Posted July 9, 2009 No kissing, just a hug at the end. To be honest I don't think I've ever really kissed on a first date
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