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She told me that she would be MIA while she's in NY with her ex bf visiting her brother. I didn't think much of it then.

 

Fast forward some days later. I'm getting a little jealous and decided to do no contact on the girl. I know we're not dating, but I'm still jealous. While she did tell me that she wouldn't be able to contact me at all while in NY, she's still contacting me and leaving messages on my myspace.

 

I have not responded to any of her messages but left a status message on my myspace that I missed her. That was it.

 

I was thinking of going NC until I feel more detached from her. Being jealous while not in a relationship with her must be too needy at this point.

 

What do you all think?

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The two of you aren't dating.

 

You may be jealous because of the situation (many would be) but you have no justification for saying anything or reacting. She isn't your girlfriend - you aren't even in a romantic relationship at this point.

 

It may suck but you are just going to have to sit with it and get past it.

 

It isn't her problem nor is it something you should address with her. This is your problem. You deal with it.

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