Dasilva Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 My ex just sent me a text while she was at work... this is what it reads... "I need to talk to you later ok, I have things I need to say and finally tell you why I've been doing what I have been" Im scared to hear what she has to say to me... ill update you guys when I find out... What do you guys think it is?
TaraMaiden Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Woah.... You know what, I dread too think.. Hope it's not too earth-shattering..... Really, I'm curious now.... Good luck...
wow123 Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 She already broke up with you right? If she doesn't want to get back together you may not want to hear her reasons.
Exit Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Yeah.... the power is in your hands whether or not you want to hear this. I understand the curiosity might be overwhelming, but if you've begun healing, you might not want to hear what she's been up to.
Author Dasilva Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 Wow... not what I had expected, probably not what anybody would expect. She told me that she went to a psychic and the psychic told her that she was dating a portuguese guy ( which I am ) and that I wouldnt marry her and that I would end up hurting her. She told her that she needed to take a break from me for me to realize what I wanted. Personally im not a beleiver in all this psychic stuff, but I guess some people are. I think she may be taking it a little too seriously but I cant tell her what to think and what not to think. This explains why she wanted a break, but it doesnt explain why she has been going out all the time, and lying about where she is going. Where do I go from here? What is my next move?
Exit Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Well I'm tempted to say "that's an incredibly stupid reason", but it all depends on how seriously you believe in those things. If she's a firm believer, then I guess I can't blame her. It's up to you if you want to fight for her, or let her go because she values what a psychic says more than your relationship. If I were you, and I wanted her back, I would tell her that if we love each other we can be stronger than some psychic prediction.
asuman Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Is she Portuguese? Does she live in an area with a lot of Portuguese people around?
NopeNah Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Wow! A complete stranger choosing the outcome of a relationship..whats next?
Exit Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 There's gotta be more to it. It's incredibly flaky if she broke up over that. She should have come home to you and laughed about it. This explanation she gave you might just be a load of BS..
playlislay Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 In regards to seeing a psychic (I do believe in them by the way, but..) I read a story in a womens magazine (chat, womans own etc) about a woman who got rid of her partner because of what a psychic said. This woman visited a psychic who told her that she would meet (cant remember the details, so Ive made them up) a blonde man in a pub called James Hill who owns a villa in a particular area of France. The psychic said that he will be her soul mate and that they would get married and live a happy life etc. The woman already had boyfriend that she loved and didnt have much faith in the pychics words. She stayed with her boyfriend and thought nothing of it, until............ A couple of months later, she walks into a pub. She meets a blonde man at the bar, they click, he tells her his name-James Hill. He then tells her about his villa in that particular area of France. She honestly couldnt believe what she was seeing/hearing. They exchange numbers. A few weeks later, she leaves her loving boyfriend because she now had faith in the psychics words and believed that this man is the love of her life. They remain together for 6 months, her dream man cheats on her (and some other major stuff that I cant recall), she leaves him and realises how she threw away the real love of her life and probably the best boyfriend she could wish for. She tried to get her original bf back but he wasnt interested due to her throwing everything away just because of what a psychic said. She obviously regrets it!! Im not out to give you false hope or anything, Im just providing you with a true story that proves that you shouldnt throw good rekationships away just because of what a "psychic" said. Good luck dude!
Exit Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Good input playlislay. If anything, this news she got from the psychic could have been a BENEFIT to your relationship. She should have come and told you about it and you could have said "well now we know what to look for. If we ever hit a rocky patch in our relationship, we'll already know in advance, and we'll be able to work through it". I still say this might be a cheap scape-goat, even though she made it seem incredibly serious by saying "I need to explain why I've been acting this way".
westernxer Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 This explains why she wanted a break, but it doesnt explain why she has been going out all the time, and lying about where she is going. The psychic thing is a poor excuse. Good riddance.
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