Worried101 Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 For the past two months I have been driving myself crazy over this. It all started like two months ago when my husband wouldnt come home right after work. He would not show up until 10 or 11. I thought he was cheating on me. He would delete some number off of his phone. He would only talk to this person for only 1 min. Then I asked him if he was cheating, he denied it. Then he started coming back home. But he was still calling this person. Then I noticed a change in him. He wasent the same person. Then I found out who the person was, she deals drugs. Im know thinking that he is using cocaine. He was sniffing a lot.... rubbing his nose.... disappearing at home like going into the garage by himself. And he wouldnt drink that much and have whiskey dick. So one night he was sleeping... I searched threw everything but I didnt find anything. I looked at his nose.... he has little veins popping out on the bottom of his nose and it looks raw in there. I just don't know... he knows if he does this, this will end our marriage. I know he has used it in the past, but told me he doesnt do it. But the thing is... he sleeps fine. He usually falls asleep before me. It's really stressing me out big time. But I have not found anything, and I have looked everyday. How can I tell if he is using...........
TaraMaiden Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 I'd trust your instincts. Ask him to prove he's clean by taking a drugs test. Or pull some hair from his head, or his pillow. Then get that tested. That will tell you.... Do you have kids? Should be easy to throw him out, if not...... I'm on your path. Sounds definitely suspicious to me.
Author Worried101 Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 Yeah, I know it's odd. I do have one child.... if this feeling is true. I have somewhere to go. I already have a very good friend willing to take me in. I had a horrible chidlhood with that drug. he knows this. I will not take him back... he knew. So I think he trying his best to cover himself... or its just me being parnoid. I going to order a drug test over the internet... but I did my research and cocaine only stays in the system for 72 hours...and his is prolly more like 24 hr... So I will have to do it the night I think he's doing it. Im telling you I am stressing my body out over this..
TaraMaiden Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Relax. What you know you can overcome, can't hurt you unless you let it. Your priority now is to look after your child. Then when you get this kit, watch his behaviour. One night when he's acting suspiciously - do the test. You sound like a very strong and determined woman, and a good protective mum to your child. If he's destroying his life - sadly, you'll have to let him go his own way. It's a small hope, but a hope nevertheless, that if he sees you are dead-set on ending this due to his habit - he'll change it for the better and kick it for good. But you'll need strong proof. Good luck
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