bodie124 Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Hi all. I am in a new relationship of about 5 months which has progressed into more than just casual dating. Before I left to go abroad this summer she popped the L word, which capped off an amazing 5 months of dating. I couldn't be happier, but can't help but think of whether we could have a future together, or whether it's too early in the relationship to discuss future plans. There's no question that we are both somewhat independent, and given that I will be graduating from college in the fall I need to start making plans. She really means a lot to me, and I need to think of the best way to show her how much I love her and that I am willing to have her in mind as I make future plans. At the same time, I don't want to make it seem to her like I'm a road block for all of her life goals. I won't see her again until august, and since we are in different countries right now communication has been extremely difficult. Sometimes I tell myself that the distance thing and all of the time on my hands has caused me to overthink and be overly concerned about the future. If I can help it, I would like for her to continue to be a part of my life, and I'm just wondering if any of you have experienced something like this and how you approached it.
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