jessicasilver Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 my bf went on holiday today for 2 weeks! i will be missing him sooooooo much however i do not want to be so clingy and text him all the time asking him how his doing, where his going etc... his last text to me was that he arrived and he loved me so i texted him back saying ''sweet dreams love u 2 x'' i decided that i wont contact him again after this as i dont want him to think im controling him, i want him to have a good time (hope he doesnt cheat) lool!!! is this a good idea?? im planning on not contacting him until he contacts me? but im scared this will make him forget me and him being a typical boy, he might become too friendly with girls on holiday also im going on holiday a week after him, if he doesnt contact me as often when his on holiday now, do you think i should do the same thing back to him when im gone?? thanks
whichwayisup Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 How long have you two been together? And how serious is your relationship? I think you're thinking about this waaay too much..And actually reading more of your thread, I see that maybe you're young and to even say if he doesn't contact me alot during his holiday then I'll do the same to him, just answered all my questions. Just focus on you and your life while he's away. ENJOY the time and just look forward to him coming back and spending time together as a couple. Don't play games, or worry about stuff that hasn't happened yet.
Author jessicasilver Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 excluding the break up we have been together for 1 year and 3months, his the first guy i have ever loved and im the first girl his ever loved! he broke up with me and in the 4 months that we were away from eachother he just kissed one girl so im hoping he wont do nothing in these two weeks! i guess your right its stupid playing games but i dont want him to think im this possessve gf who wont stop texting him all the time soim going to try keep it to a minimum! he texted me today saying 'morning, i wont be able to call you as it charges me too much and i wont have credit left so we can just text eachother, i love u xxx'' so i just replied saying ''thats fine with me, hope your having a good time, love you too x'' and he didnt text back just as i assumed
sugarmomma Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Your job while he is gone is to focus on you and RETURN texts.
Lyssa Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 he texted me today saying 'morning, i wont be able to call you as it charges me too much and i wont have credit left so we can just text eachother, i love u xxx'' so i just replied saying ''thats fine with me, hope your having a good time, love you too x'' and he didnt text back just as i assumed I think it's good enough that he texted you that while he's away. The text you sent his does not call for a reply. Telling him you're thinking of or missing him every other day or 2 days would be fine. Let him have his fun but at the same time, remind him that you're still around.
Author jessicasilver Posted July 6, 2009 Author Posted July 6, 2009 well since his last text ''he ran out of credit and want met to buy him more'' he hasnt texted me back! i texted him that night to tell him ill buy him some credit and i did yesterday and sent it to him! however i have got no reply not even a ''thank you'' todays the second day..... its made me a lil insecure as before he left he said he will be talking to girls (as friends) but him being with his womenizer cousin i think more will happen! i tried calling him but he didnt pick up (it charges him to recieve calls) so i left it as that and now it feels like im going NC :S but we are still together! he was on facebook however yesterday morning to make a reply to his friend, he could have messaged me to see how i was clearly he does not care!
Lyssa Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 well since his last text ''he ran out of credit and want met to buy him more'' he hasnt texted me back! i texted him that night to tell him ill buy him some credit and i did yesterday and sent it to him! however i have got no reply not even a ''thank you'' todays the second day..... its made me a lil insecure as before he left he said he will be talking to girls (as friends) but him being with his womenizer cousin i think more will happen! i tried calling him but he didnt pick up (it charges him to recieve calls) so i left it as that and now it feels like im going NC :S but we are still together! he was on facebook however yesterday morning to make a reply to his friend, he could have messaged me to see how i was clearly he does not care! You reloaded for him and yet, he didn't even thank you for the reload? That's rude. Then he was on Facebook to reply his friend's message and didn't even make time to send you a message? Double rude. I wouldn't tolerate that. That's just me.
Author jessicasilver Posted July 6, 2009 Author Posted July 6, 2009 yep why do you think i become so anxious about it it doesnt help that his now in a different country miles away from me so theres nothing i can do about it until he gets back as i dont want to be nagging at him while his on holiday haveing a good time! i really dont know why i let him treat me this way, i just dont want to lose him the second time round but i have the worse feeling that his older cousin has already poisoned his mind that being single and messing around with girls is more fun! i have a feeling his already cheated
Lyssa Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Are you the same poster that started a thread about her BF's cousin telling him to break it off with her and then when they were at the airport or somewhere, his cousin asked him to check out girls? If you were that poster, well.. I'd drop your BF. Way too immature.
Author jessicasilver Posted July 6, 2009 Author Posted July 6, 2009 yeh that was my poster! i think i know now why my bf hasnt called... his very easily persuaded by people and im sure now his with his older cousin all day and night .....theres no thinking about me anymore! im sure his planning to end it again but if he does this time round ! theres no going back and he knows that too
Lyssa Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 yeh that was my poster! i think i know now why my bf hasnt called... his very easily persuaded by people and im sure now his with his older cousin all day and night .....theres no thinking about me anymore! im sure his planning to end it again but if he does this time round ! theres no going back and he knows that too Like I said and some of the members have commented on your other thread, he's not worth it if he's easily persuaded by his cousin. For now, just wait till he texts you or comes back. MAYBE he has a good reason for not keeping in you in the loop (although I can't think of any good reason at this moment).
Author jessicasilver Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 LOL he messaged me today on facebook and told me the credit did not come through... i realised i sent him te wrong code silly me! so i sent him the right one and his sent me like 7 messages and he called me too, he said his been having a good time but have been thinking about me alot! aww bless him i think im just too paranoid sometimes !
2sunny Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 you sound young... why couldn't he buy his own credit for the phone? are you the one responsible for fixing everything for him? i would back way off... besides - any guy that is totally into you would have wanted you to go along with him - if he was really into you...
Author jessicasilver Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 firstly how can he buy credit in a foreign country for a uk network? secondly his on holiday with his older brother and older cousin, i cant go on holiday with him as my mum wont be too happy with it! im going on holiday without him too dont mean im not into him... we are not young, both 19, i just needed some advise as we never been away from eachother this long while in a relationship together!
2sunny Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 firstly how can he buy credit in a foreign country for a uk network? secondly his on holiday with his older brother and older cousin, i cant go on holiday with him as my mum wont be too happy with it! im going on holiday without him too dont mean im not into him... we are not young, both 19, i just needed some advise as we never been away from eachother this long while in a relationship together! ahahahaha... ummmm, ok you're not young.
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