hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 okay i went on a picnic with my ex we found a nice place at the park. It was great we made small talk then i spontaneously asked if she wanted to go to the movies. She obliged and we did. On the way to the movies we talked a little about us. She said she needed space and i agreed. I am trying to go NC strictly. we had a great time but she is seeing someone and after all i could think about whas if she was gonna go see this other dude. I gathered from our convo that she just wanna be free to do whatever without repercussions. I will give her her space and i need time for myself by myself.
bluewolf17 Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 For your sake, you must bite the bullet and leave her alone. Give her all the space in the world. If she's with someone else, then she has choosen to leave you behind. Don't drag your heart through that. Sounds like she still cares for you, and she might be confused. Give her time to think about everything, and in the mean time, give yourself time to move on. I'm really sorry, but when your are clinging on to someone who is with someone else, it doesn't make you look good. Have some pride and cut this chick loose. Let her miss you.
Exit Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Definitely disappear for the time being. I might not have even hung out with her in the first place. Be glad that it went pretty smoothly. Now she knows that you're still a decent guy and you'll be on her mind. Don't let her get any more of your attention "for free", either she's with you or she isn't. Settling into being her friend will just help her get over you.
Author hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 yeah imma lay low and chill for a least of month of NC i told her yesterday of my intentions that i want her back so she knows i dont wanna be just friends....ohh by the way i do have a blog thomas:dontfallknowtheledge.blogspot.com so update this jerkoff!!!!!!!!!!
Island Girl Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 You should make a blog. Update that. Nice advice. OP - you are going through a very difficult time. Knowing she is seeing someone else is heart wrenching I am sure. As you say, you do need time for yourself. And with no contact you will give her the opportunity to miss you so if she was going to - it really is the only way to find that out. Come here and post as often as you like. Many are in the same position you are. Many others have been where you are and have come through it all. Find solace where you can.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Was that sarcasm island girl? Because I was being serious. A blog would help a lot
Island Girl Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Was that sarcasm island girl? Because I was being serious. A blog would help a lot I felt exactly the same way hrtbrk hotel tenant did when he read your post. Sorry for the T/J OP.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Lmao I just read his post. I was trying to help. I should've worded it differently so he knew I was being serious.
Author hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 yeah it is cool i wasnt really takin it to heart cuz i dont know u and i could really care less what u say even if ur were being an arsehole thomas x but ya know what i do have a blog and i put up post frequently go check it out. i dont call her though but i occasionally see her at the gym but imma change my hrs for a month at least to not see her at all.
Island Girl Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Lmao I just read his post. I was trying to help. I should've worded it differently so he knew I was being serious. Would have changed perception to be sure. But now you have explained it.
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