Liquinn Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 I met a girl today, OK. She dated a mate of mine but he hasn't being treating her well... (She did say that her ex bf didn't go over her house or make the effort and I know for sure she is telling the truth about this); it's only a 15-30 min bus trip but that's not the issue ;x Enough about that and we've been talking on MSN since May 2009 and have been getting on OK, the meet up today went well... And I know she's busy until next Tuesday doing various things... Shall I ring her before or on Tuesday to arrange the next meet up (would be a good idea to ring her nearer Tuesday so she'll know what she's doing). And she did come down to see me and the bus fare was a bit expensive and we agreed it's not fair that she comes down to where I live all the time. Shall I ring her on tuesday? I'll talk to her how her college taster day goes and stuff, then I'll ask her I would like to see her sometime Wednesday or whenever she's free that week, then we can arrange something over the phone there and then hopefully =/ If she says she's busy the rest of the week, this will mean she doesn't wanna meet up, atleast I'll know, right? It's hard to remember hours of dialouge but... I'll have to wait until Tuesday to see what she says =/ Opinions? Comments? =] Thanks
Author Liquinn Posted July 5, 2009 Author Posted July 5, 2009 OK, she blew me off and she said shes busy next week, what a joke. Damn, what now?
TaraMaiden Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Take a big step back and leave this be. One: she's dating a friend of yours. Two: How he treats her is between them (unles it turns nasty). Three: She's sussing out people she could rebound with and use as a safety-net if the current R goes belly-up.... Walk away. If she'd cheat on him - she'll cheat on you.
Author Liquinn Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Take a big step back and leave this be. One: she's dating a friend of yours. Two: How he treats her is between them (unles it turns nasty). Three: She's sussing out people she could rebound with and use as a safety-net if the current R goes belly-up.... Walk away. If she'd cheat on him - she'll cheat on you. True, I've backed off, and I've ended contact to be honest =[
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Well, I have sent an email to her with the below messege as I've not talked to her in a while =/ Hey, it's been a while =] Yuo alright? How did your taster day go? (She had a college taster day 2 weeks ago) You wanna meet up soon? =D xxx wb if you want =D I need to be told straight by her if she wants to meet up, this is bugging me if you know what I mean. If I get to reply I'll assume she doesn't want to meet, right?
Thaddeus Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Well, I have contacted her the below messege as I've not talked to her in s while =/ Hey, it's been a while =] Yuo alright? How did your taster day go? (She had a college taster day 2 weeks ago) You wanna meet up soon? =D xxx wb if you want =D I need to be told straight by her if she wants to meet up, this is bugging me if you know what I mean. If I get to reply I'll assume she doesn't want to meet, right? She's doing one of two things: She's trying to get you to chase her. Don't. Nothing good can come of that.She's ambivalent about meeting you, doesn't really care one way or the other. Either way, I don't see anything good about staying in contact with her.
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 She's doing one of two things: She's trying to get you to chase her. Don't. Nothing good can come of that.She's ambivalent about meeting you, doesn't really care one way or the other. Either way, I don't see anything good about staying in contact with her. Thanks for being honest. I removed her from IM so the only contact we can have is email, I'm keen to see if she replies, and if she does, what she says. I guess it's time to move on. Sigh, what shall I do with the IM logs/pictures of me and her? :/
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 I am wondering why she met me in the first place if she knew she wasn't gonna meet me again, oh well. :/
Thaddeus Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 Sigh, what shall I do with the IM logs/pictures of me and her? :/ Delete, delete, delete.
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 Delete, delete, delete. Why would she spend money on the bus fair to see me the first time? What did she gain out of it? I'd rather her be honest than be ignored :/
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 We emailed each other and shes annoyed that I stopped contact with her on the basis of her not wanting to meet me since she was "busy" this could of been a lie though I'll post the emails here if anyone wants to share their opinion on them. Thanks
Thaddeus Posted July 14, 2009 Posted July 14, 2009 I'll post the emails here if anyone wants to share their opinion on them.No, don't. That a huge breach of confidence. Even if you never see or correspond with this girl again, posting someone else's private emails is very very bad form.
Author Liquinn Posted July 14, 2009 Author Posted July 14, 2009 No, don't. That a huge breach of confidence. Even if you never see or correspond with this girl again, posting someone else's private emails is very very bad form. Well basically, she said she's annoyed at me for ending contact and then I assumed she was lying about been busy for a week after meeting me. It's over anyways :/
Author Liquinn Posted July 15, 2009 Author Posted July 15, 2009 Meh, it's over now. Me and her emailed each other and she didn't like it cause I stopped contact. That's her problem and I did tell her about Jen so what does she expect me to do? I did what I felt was right and now she's making a fuss out of it. She aint gonna hear from me again
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