jessicasilver Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 me and my bf were perfectly fine until he got involved... it should be two people in a relationship not 3... he persuaded my bf that his too young to be in a relationship (my bf is 19) and my bf ended up dumping me (his cousin is 25 and acts so imature) we ended not speaking for 4 months and we just recently got back together because my bf regreted it and begged/cried to me to take him back and i did because i love him anyway my bf went on holiday today and i was on the phone to him at the airport... i heard his cousin ask him ''who are you on the phone to?'' and he said ''my gf (as in me)'' and he replied ''shut the phone'' it realy upset me and my bf was just laughing ! my bf just rang me to tell me he landed and i said ''i love you'' and he replied ''love you too baby'' and i heard in the background .... his cousin said ''love you too baby'' trying to mimic him! why is he acting like a 16 year old his bloody 25 years old and what is it to him who my cousin dates... also now they are going to be on holiday together i know he will convince him to just forget me and check other girls out !!
whimsical_memory Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Sounds like you could do so much better! Remember when you were a child and were easily persuaded (or did the persuading) by your friends to do something that you did not really want to do? From your posting, this sounds a lot like your boyfriend. I think you should seriously re-evaluate your relationship, because do you really want to be involved with a man that would not only break up with because of a family member but also allow this cousin to openly mock his feelings for you?
sedgwick Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 If your boyfriend is such a sheep that he lets other people "make" him do things (such as checking out girls), do you really want to be with him anyway?
Author jessicasilver Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 i guess he is a bit of a sheep when his with me... his really sweet to me and i can see he really does care for me! when his with his cousin, he kind of changes.... for example i was talking to him on the phone and he went quiet for 10 seconds and i asked him whats wrong and he said 'two hot girls walked past me'' something his older cousin says and does! it hurt but i didnt say anything! maybe i should give him a taste of his own medicine! im just really worried his on holiday with him now for 2 weeks alot can happen in that time but at least i know i will be 100% faithful to him! if he cheats then i least then i can move on and find someone who deserves me being sweet to them
TaraMaiden Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 If he cheats, it will simply be a confirmation that the guy is a wuss and easily led. Like..... now, for example. Next time you talk to him, tell him that unless he grows some balls, then he can give 'em to someone else, you're done here. It needs a strong person to do that, but from what I can tell, you're already stronger than he is anyway, so that shouldn't be too much effort. Find someone you can respect - because you don't respect him for the way he's behaving, do you? He sure as hell isn't respecting you!
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