RosyDay Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 I read that there is a NC Buddy Thread, but I don't see it and I don't know anything about it. Can someone tell me more about this? Thanks.
Quest Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Hi Rosyday. I was on it earlier but can't find it again. It was a bit out of date so we could make this one if you like?! I'm in a NC situation and finding it difficult.
asuman Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 You want to break NC right now because you feel very emotional, right? Well, when you're very emotional you are not making good decisions, and nor are you behaving in a manner around your ex that is particularly attractive or appealing. This is why you need to calm your emotions down before ever even considering contacting your ex. Neither of you are there yet.
Quest Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Don't want to break NC so much as get through it ... sometimes the silence is really hard. It's me who initiated it so I can't complain and I know it's for my own good. Still, doesn't make it easy 100 per cent of the time. A NC thread is a good idea because it gives people in this situation a chance to vent ... but not at their ex!
Quest Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t155666/ Found it again!
Dasilva Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Hello, im currently on a break with my ex which she initiated. Yesterday I woke up in the middle of the night and decided to call her , something woke me up. I asked her what she did that night, she said she just stayed at home, I knew she was lying... I asked again she told me she just hanging out at her girlfriends... I still knew she was lying.. I asked again she said she was at her friends boyfriends house with a few people... I still knew she was lying and asked for a final time... she finally told me she went to some house party with her friends. Finally the truth comes out. I asked her if she was talking or seeing anybody, and she claims that she is not. She tells me she loves me all the time, but her actions are speaking louder then her words. Today I texted her and told her that even if she wasnt talking or seeing anybody that it doesnt matter... the fact that she went to a party and tried to lie so hard about it only tells me one thing... that I really shouldnt beleive anything shes said to me since the break started. I told her that she cant have her single life and have me sitting at home waiting and wondering what shes doing and who shes with. I told her if thats what she wants that she has to let me go.... I love her to death but I cant let her do this to me. Today am I starting no contact and plan on answering no calls. I sucked at it before but here it goes. Wish me luck.
Quest Posted July 5, 2009 Posted July 5, 2009 I told her that she cant have her single life and have me sitting at home waiting and wondering what shes doing and who shes with. I told her if thats what she wants that she has to let me go.... I love her to death but I cant let her do this to me. Today am I starting no contact and plan on answering no calls. I sucked at it before but here it goes. Wish me luck. Good luck, Dasilva. Seems best thing to do is follow her example and enjoy being single again too ... will make the NC a lot easier!
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