alvina Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Ok so its been a week of this minimal contact stuff which is hard as we live together ( wont be the case after 3 weeks) anyway so i had a bad day where we were just in contact all day, but yesterday i did my own thing, looked good went out with friends and made him very curious! Today though, woke up from a sleepless night and missing him more than even, his arms around me and morning chats i had a bad headache and i knocked on his door and went and sat on the edge of his bed and asked if he had any painkillers and he said no, i was hoping he would say lie down and ill give u a head massage like he usually does-obviously this didnt happen, and i said ' errrrrrr make my headache better!' as a joke- very stupid, and then said in a very light and jokey way 'your so useless, see you later' and walked out. I wish i hadnt done this though last time we split up, i got him back by doing something similar then kissing him and poof we were back together- i guess thats not going to happen so easily this time. But i will get him back! i am determined too.
TaraMaiden Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 No, actually, I don't think you will. And the only way you'll think you'll get him back is by starting something physical, in which case it will probably be for the sex, and very few guys turn that opportunity down. But he did, didn't he? However, if you keep insisting, he might just give in...hell, why not? Really, I think you should just show him that you're moving on. Stop chasing, because that's a sure-fire way of driving him off. Detach yourself and be distant. This protects you, and shows him you're getting on with things. It shows him you're being mature.... which is no bad thing. Then, in 3 weeks time, start No Contact, for sure, for sure. Time to move on, hun..... 1
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