Samari Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 This is partly from another thread I created a little while ago, but I thought I would start a new one since the main premise is different. A friend of mine from Indiana is coming here to San Francisco to hang out for a few days. We're both originally from the bay area and went to high school around there. We're still fairly young as well (I'm 21 he's 22). He's a single guy that is basically on the "prowl" since he's been in nursing school in Indiana and the facility where he was going to apparently didn't have any girls he found interesting. So being the good friend I am, I thought I'd introduce him to an attractive friend of mine who I met last semester via my girlfriend. I already told this girl (who is quite the outgoing type herself) that I may have a friend coming into town and that if you're not too busy maybe we can all hang out and go to a club or something. And she was up for it. Seemed kind of optimistic too. I know she's been looking for a boyfriend since she broke up with her last one. Now I don't know if they could be anything special since my buddy eventually has to go back to Indiana for a while, but I just thought it would be nice for them to meet. Anyways, my friend saw a photo of the girl on Facebook photo one day and inquired about who it was. I told him the scoop and that is how he became aware of her. It looks like we're probably going to a club around next weekend sometime. Now I'm sure it will be more than just us three at a club setting. I think we're bringing some other friends that I met last semester too who also know the girl. She may bring some people I don't know, but whatever. Bottom line is that I'm going to most likely be playing the role of "wingman". I don't mind, I just want to make sure I do a good job. I'm not going to try and trick the girl about my friend (since she's my friend too), but I want to make sure that he has a chance at making a good first impression. He's not a bonehead when it comes to meeting women or anything, so he may not even need my help who knows. But does anyone have any advice for certain situations? Such as if the girl brings another friend whom I don't know and doesn't approve of my friend and tries to screw things up and/or is just a total bitch? Or a random guy hits on the said girl (she's really pretty) at the club? I know this may really sound ridiculous, but he is my friend and I would like to help him if need be.
mental_traveller Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 My main advice would be don't drink too much! Seriously, as long as you avoid being a dick, that should be all - leave the rest to them.
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