JBM Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Let me start off by saying that i've never really had trouble with women....untill now. There is a girl in my life right now that i really like. I think about her quite often, and the thought of her possibly liking me is confusing me to no end. We've known eachother for about a year now. We hang out every now and then, my friends implied to me that she may like me. She stares at me when i'm not looking at her, she has been bringing me up randomly in conversations with my friends recently, compliments my appearance and has told me that i could get any girl i want. The one thing i need to bring to your attention about this girl is that she is known to push guys away if they are too aggressive or seem even slightly needy. This is were my dilemma comes in. I'm not sure how to find out if she "likes" me without coming off as aggressive or too straightforward. I'm not very fond with the thought of rejection, however i have fairly thick skin and i am willing to handle it. I just am not sure how to find out the truth of her feelings for me without ruining my chances with her. She's been very flakey with guys recently and gets bored of them pretty fast. I've never met any girl as confusing as this before. Sometimes i feel like she just says things to make other people happy, and not really mean it, so i don't want to get my hopes up too high. However, i sincerley feel a connection with her. The thought of love really gets me going as i want nothing more than to feel it again. Maybe i'm over analyzing the situation? Can anyone give their two cents? Male and Female Thanks
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