happychick Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 My long time, but also long distance boyfriend of 3 years is on an open ended ticket backpacking though Eastern Europe. I started out so excited about this trip for him. I would love to be able to do what he's doing. I started feeling a little uneasy the closer the trip got and the night before he left at dinner, to break it off, but he said he loved me and wanted to stay exclusive. I don't hear from him too much, though I've sent many emails telling him I love/miss him. How excited I am for him. Asking how he is and what he's seen. Every 3rd day, maybe...and it's short...one line or so. Maybe even just a text like "xoxoxo" message. And one drunken phone call from Amsterdam at 4:30am his time. But not really anything about what he's done or is doing. I don't even know what country he is in right now. I guess my question is, should I be worried? We already have a long distance relationship so trust normally isn't an issue. But I just feel weird about this whole thing. Side note: I'm not there because I couldn't get the time off...nor do I have the money. We talked about me possibly going out the last week of his trip in August, but that faded when we saw the flights were 1000+ to and from that area.
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