mighty_mouse_018 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Ok so I was recently speaking to this girl I'm quite interested in and after a little while we got to the topic of boyfriends/girlfriends etc. We both got around to finding out we were both single but soon after this she said, "Yeah single life is great though. I love being single and I'm really not looking for a boyfriend etc". Right so I've known this girl for a while now and I'm starting to get to know her a little better. One thing I've noticed about her is that she seems almost scared of me or rather intimidated by me at times. I could sense at the time that maybe she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend to cover up the fact that she didn't have one, or feel less embarassed about not having one...if you know what I mean. Well at the time I thought it was either that OR she was trying to tell me, "Listen dude I don't like you and want you as a boyfriend". Now I completely backed off after this because I thought she wasn't interested in me. Anyways this has completely baffled me because even after she said all this, she is still showing some genuine interest in me (Like now a lot of the time she is making the first moves, but in the beginning i had to always make the first move). Also I've never come across a girl that has said this sort of thing...most girls I know are always open to having a boyfriend. This totally threw me off, she has really confused me but then I thought maybe she is doing that whole girl thing where they tell you the opoosite of what they really want!?!? Now I know you can't tell me what is exactly going through her head but I just wanna know, does this sound like something you might do at all ladies?? I'm really confused... Thanx for your replies!!
carhill Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 So, if you're interested in her and find her attractive, ask her out. I'd go silent for a month or two and let her wonder what happened, and then ask her out, straight up. You've become her buddy. I see the signs from many years of experience being female's buddy. That's OK, if that's all you want. Good luck!
You'reasian Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Ok so I was recently speaking to this girl I'm quite interested in and after a little while we got to the topic of boyfriends/girlfriends etc. We both got around to finding out we were both single but soon after this she said, "Yeah single life is great though. I love being single and I'm really not looking for a boyfriend etc". Now I know you can't tell me what is exactly going through her head but I just wanna know, does this sound like something you might do at all ladies?? I'm really confused... Thanx for your replies!! You're over analyzing this. She told you that she wasn't looking for a boyfriend, so don't approach her as girlfriend material. Keep it cool, funny and don't care too much. I'm sure things will work out for the best.
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