brock9911 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 lately iv been getting a barrage of text messages from my ex. she wants to fix things and how she wants to see little brians running around (my name). also how she doesnt think this is over and how her heart hurts and she loves me to death. now the last couple of days iv ignored her texts after a $h*t show at a party where she was making a big specticle and made me look bad because she was crying and making people feel bad for her. the text now are "please tell me theres no chance. i need to know so i can move on" and "y wont you answer me, this should be easy for you if you dont love me". a lot of messages like that. now for those who dont know, she broke up with me after accusing me of cheating, which i never did. she did cheat on me though, which is special. and this is all after being together for 8 years. now for some reason i dont know what, but i feel horrible for not answering her texts, and for some reason i dont want to say theres no chance. even if i know things will never be the same, i guess i just miss what we had.
adamt Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Why feel bad for someone that cheated on you? She will probably do it again if she got the chance. keep ignoring her and she will start to leave you alone
bella16 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 She cheated on you, and she expects you to talk to her???? I have read your other posts throughout your break-up. And I think what you are doing and how you are acting is right. You are doing the right thing. Some people are different...but things will never be the same after someone cheats in the relationship. The trust will be gone, and it will make things worse. Stay NC...I know 8 years is a long time and there was a lot of love, but you have to hold your head up high and move on. I don't believe in the whole cheating and getting back together thing...it doesn't work. Good job on not answering her texts! People have a lot of nerve!
Author brock9911 Posted July 2, 2009 Author Posted July 2, 2009 yeah i here ya. i guess after so much time, you think you know a person, but really you dont know a thing. the fact that someone you love can turn around and stab you in the back hurts. and than they try to make you feel guilty. love sux
bella16 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Exactly, she was so quick to go ahead and cheat and burn the 8 years you've had together over a fling or whatever..and now expects you to accept it and take her back. Do yourself a favor and keep moving forward away from that mess of a situation. There are plenty of girls out there who would never do such a thing like that to the person they love. She'll come along one day. Don't feel guilty for the way she is acting. She can't have her cake and eat it too! She will learn from this, and eventually she'll stop begging you to go back. She didn't care about how you would feel before she cheated, so now you shouldn't care about how she feels that you are ignoring her and done with her. Not going back to her is very strong on your part, something that many people find hard to do and they go back to the cheater anyway thinking they will never do it again.
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