PrincessAshee Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 I met this guy a few months ago funny how we met...we met at his job a grocery store i go to often beacouse its close to home and well weve had this thing that we would stair at eachother he would say something to me like hey and i always choked up till one day i went over by where he was at to get a bag of chips and he was like hey nd like he said it loud enough to get my attention and i was like yea nd he goes whats up and as i do i respond and we have a small convo and then we exchange numbers a few weeks later he calls me and he asks if he could come over and i said he could not knowing anything just having him come over and hang out..he came and we hung out talked a little and around 2 am he said he was gonna leave i was sad becouse i didnt want him to leave so i went outside shortly after he came out and he came up behind me and put his arms around me and kissed me..and the fallowing friday he came back and we hung out at my place and we were more comfurtable and we were holding hands kissing and stuff and we were talking and i had mentioned that i think we should be together he said okay and so we started talking about it and well the thing is we were talking and he said he would have to see more about who am which is totally understandable but i think that i have alotta feelings for him and i have noo idea how to tell him or anything..ive previosuly been in a bad relationship and which made me not trust anybody and im scared to get close to him and tell him how i feel for which i might be regected..Im young im 17 i know i have alotta time in my life but this guy Hes everything ive ever dreamed about when were together he gives me all his attention..hes always around me..we only hang out on fridays its fine with me even though i wish i could see him more but he works all the time my mom and everybody met him and Adores him..Im confussed on everything should i tell him that i have feelings for him Also how can i get over my anxity of being in relationships and trusting people...
Island Girl Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 So far what you do know about this guy you like - but you have hung out twice. He should be taking you out not just coming over to your house and "hanging out". And you are twitterpated. Those sparks are happening and everything is grand -- it ALWAYS is in the beginning. You need to just slow down and realize you do not really know him that well. That takes time not 20 questions or even a hundred questions. I'm surprised your mom isn't wondering why you don't go to the movies or dinner, etc. Regular traditional dates that would be more appropriate than make out sessions at your house. You don't need to tell him anything right now. He knows you like him - you let him come over to your house and make out with you. That is enough of a signal without you spelling it out. I hope you learn this: less is more. You don't have to spell it out for boys to get it and it is better if they don't know exactly how you feel. And please use paragraphs. They make posts (especially lengthy ones) easier to read and you're likely to get more responses.
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 You don't need to tell him anything right now. He knows you like him - you let him come over to your house and make out with you. That is enough of a signal without you spelling it out. I hope you learn this: less is more. You don't have to spell it out for boys to get it and it is better if they don't know exactly how you feel. And please use paragraphs. They make posts (especially lengthy ones) easier to read and you're likely to get more responses. I totally agree with the first paragraph. And the second paragraph. Sentences with punctuation help, too.
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