thebigrabbit14 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Recently broke up. Spending the day together. We went out for 3 years and she just broke it off saying we have nothing in common. Also stating that the past 3 months we haven't been doing anything really fun. But thats because she had school everyday and i worked everyday and we only saw each other one day a week. We agreed on being friends last week. But she knows i want to get back together. My friend even told her a couple days ago that i want to get back together. So if she's agreeing to hang out do you think she realized what she's missing? Should i touch her at all. She just sprained her ankle today so she will be on crutches. Which means we cant go into town so we will stay local or go out to eat and then back to my house? Im finding it hard to be in a good mood lately and i know i have to look positive. She knows ive been mess and she even told me last week that if i had been taking of myself she would have reconsidered but she doesn't know about the future. I need serious help.
lizzy_09 Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 So if she's agreeing to hang out do you think she realized what she's missing? I believe so. Ever heard of the quote "Absence makes the heart go fonder"? It's not that you have to see each other everyday, I meet my former boyfriend on week ends but the nice part about our relationship was that he'd keep in touch with me everyday. Talk about what's been going on with his day and vice versa, how we view certain situations, events, stuff like that. Even if we have little things to say with each other, it's the thought that counts. We often let angry emotions control our judgment. So we say stuff that we regret. Was there someone else in her life after you've recently broke off that you should be concerned of? Update us.
Author thebigrabbit14 Posted July 4, 2009 Author Posted July 4, 2009 it was during her finals for school, i dont think where hanging out tomorrow anyways i havent gotten a reply back. i only want to get back together. shes hanging with a bunch of friends now all the time
boogieboy Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 Dont do it. She is getting over her guilt and slowly putting you in the friend zone the more you see her. DO NOT talk to her, and DO NOT go out with her. The only way she will really miss you is if she cannot get to you. She has to come at you with an almost desperation to talk about a possible reconciliation. But I think she grew tired of you. You cannot be friends when you still want to get back with her. You know that. Dont be friends on her terms when she broke it off with you. So if you hang out with her now, you will only be where you left off, which is where she grew tired of you. Its easier for her to get over you if you are talking and hanging out, DONT LET HER DO THAT! LET HER MISS YOU! !!! Thats your only slim to none chance of getting her back. Dont count on it, you will be a mess in the meantime, but you have to do it. And she has to earn YOU back. You got it?
SierraRose Posted July 4, 2009 Posted July 4, 2009 I think you have two choices: 1-Lay your feelings on the line and work on the relationship 2-Leave it alone and walk away... Ex's can not be firends...
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