alvina Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 so i have been going the no contact stuff as much as possible! we work study and live together and it seemed to be having some effect, he was running after me, and i felt like i was in control! But today! ahhhh we ended up having lunch together- fine still felt ok and in control, this was in a work setting, in the doctors lounge Then ended up watching tv together and i felt more and more despertate i started fliring and trying to get his attention. We had to leave to go another city for another set of placements so were taking a car with a couple of other friends, i got my stuff ready and went to knock on his door to tell him we are leaving, he invites me and starts changing his clothes in front of me- i got embarassed and looked away! Ok evening, went out to dinner with some other friends- i was miserable as i felt like he had moved on acting all happy and i loved him so much and wanted him so back and i looked really miserable too and was quiet. We came back and while he was out he hurt his leg so i knocked on his door and walked in and said oh are u ok he said im just tired i want to sleep, i said oh let me just check you out, he said ' look i jiust want to sleep, i need to undress and i cant to that while you are , bye' i feel like im back to sqaure one! i havnt given up! i want him back so badly. DO i still have a chance where do i go from here?
boogieboy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Back to NC for you! You werent supposed to flirt so prematurely. You were supposed to be aloof and let him flirt first. You were supposed to act like you didnt need his attention. Now you have to go another month without seing him. AND you have to wait for him to initiate contact. Have some restraint!
Author alvina Posted July 2, 2009 Author Posted July 2, 2009 its only been like 5 days of no contact! its very hard as we work extremely closely together! I wasnt supposed to do those things, and i was doing so well:( back to sqaure 1 for me! but is it still worth a shot?
boogieboy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 its only been like 5 days of no contact! its very hard as we work extremely closely together! I wasnt supposed to do those things, and i was doing so well:( back to sqaure 1 for me! but is it still worth a shot? No one can tell you that because we dont know him and how you two react to each other. All I can say is Dont count on any shots. And try to work someplace else because you wont have a shot if he still sees you all the time. Usually jealousy sets in if he sees you with someone else tho... But again, you will destroy anyshot if you keep in contact with him.
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