lildiva385 Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Me and my ex broke up recently for he has been seeing someone else. I was hurt but i respected the fact that he was a man and told me like a man! We still have feelings for each other and a rocky friendship! but he has yet to give me the answers i deserve about "what went sour in our relationship? and who and why he did it ? the problem is we work together and he acts as if nothing happened and still treats me like his girl. so it comes to mind everytime i see him The sex in the relationship was the best thing about him,the man makes me feel like no other. and i still want to continue having sex with him but i still got feelings for him. Of course i protect myself now that we are not toghether but Should i keep having sex with him even when he will not give me the answers about our prevoius relationship? our should i just close my legs until i get the answers i deserve and need for closure?
asuman Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 You said you were hurt, you have feelings for him, and that you want answers from him that he's not giving you. Answer: Stop having sex with him.
Exit Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 What reason would he have to give you any answers, he's still getting all the benefits he could ever want from you. Give him some motivation to start explaining himself by withdrawing from him and making him miss you. Have some respect for yourself and stop giving it up to a guy who didn't want to stay with you.
Author lildiva385 Posted July 2, 2009 Author Posted July 2, 2009 SO hARD TO GIVE UP THE GREATEST SEX! BUT MY HEART NEEDS ANSWERS!!! IT MAKES SENSE WHAT U ARE SAYING! I JUST NEEDED SOMEONE TO JUST SAY WHAT I ALREADY KNEW! AS HUMANS WE NEED THAT SOMETIMES
waitingpatiently Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 The question you should be asking YOURSELF is why would you want to let him use you with no strings attached, and he left you for someone else? Yes he told you he left you for someone else, but that still does not make his actions right. Even if he gave you answers, you should still keep your legs closed from him...great sex or not. I understand you'll miss the sex (as will I with my ex), but unfortanatley once you are broken up, the sex goes right along with it. Doing the opposite will only make you hurt more.
CaliGuy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Me and my ex broke up recently for he has been seeing someone else. I was hurt but i respected the fact that he was a man and told me like a man! We still have feelings for each other and a rocky friendship! but he has yet to give me the answers i deserve about "what went sour in our relationship? and who and why he did it ? the problem is we work together and he acts as if nothing happened and still treats me like his girl. so it comes to mind everytime i see him The sex in the relationship was the best thing about him,the man makes me feel like no other. and i still want to continue having sex with him but i still got feelings for him. Of course i protect myself now that we are not toghether but Should i keep having sex with him even when he will not give me the answers about our prevoius relationship? our should i just close my legs until i get the answers i deserve and need for closure? Sex with the ex: Giving the milk away for free (without making them buy the cow). Sure, give it away to him. He will suck you dry and leave you empty. They always do.
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