Ilovehim Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 I have some questions...I have been single for almost a year now and because I must admit Im very picky...I have only met 1 guy that Im actually interested in and 2 others that are kind of "ex'es" from the best... Weirdly I thought these "ex'es" maybe had changed since so much time has passed but it was the same thing soo obviously my feelings went down again... Okay, now there is this new guy I am talking to and I really want to get to know better...But I don't know exactly how to go on about it...especially when the person gives u vibes and makes statements that they like you...but then we don't talk on the phone most nights (something Im used to from b4) and I hate games, I hate chasing people...all I know is Im interested and I want to get to know him...my feelings arent strong or anything but I really have no clue how this dating thing goes.....ugh
dreamergrl Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 If you do nothing, you'll get nothing. And if you do too much you get nothing.
BobSacamento Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Talking on the phone will only get you so much. What you need is 1 on 1 face time. The way to get that is to drop hints or suggestions for some guys.
boogieboy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Not to derail the thread, but I have to ask how much time passed when you re-tried your ex's?
Author Ilovehim Posted July 2, 2009 Author Posted July 2, 2009 Not to derail the thread, but I have to ask how much time passed when you re-tried your ex's? one of them it had been a year and a half and the other one it had been 3 years. and to everyone else..yeah we have plans to go out but we are both very busy and live a little far from each other. All I know is that I feel like I want to go out, have a good conversation and just have a good time because it has been awhile since I let anyone in. Im getting tired.
sugarmomma Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Don't start chasing him. It will totally turn him off. Express an adequate amount of interest in him and let it go. His energy needs to be coming toward you!! Do Not Chase Him!!
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