dreamergrl Posted July 6, 2009 Posted July 6, 2009 Ooh yes. I'm thinking Lombardi street in San Francisco for starters. We could make a tour of it...
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 No. Most people I would say that to acnowledge it wouldn't hurt, but for you, I'm afraid that you will mine and distort any answer she may give for any hint that you should continue to pursue her. So my recommendation, for your own protection, is: No, don't continue to initiate any communcation. If you know that she doesn't want to be asked out by you, and isn't interested in you in the way you are in her, what purpose would it serve? Im going to just mention to her i got her text message.
Trimmer Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Im going to just mention to her i got her text message. Now I'll ask your question: why?
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 Now I'll ask your question: why? Just want her to know Im interested still incase she changes her mind.
likestolaugh Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Just want her to know Im interested still incase she changes her mind. ...so that she can go tell her friends what a loser you are, so you can strike out with them too.
D-Lish Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Just want her to know Im interested still incase she changes her mind. She's not. As a general rule, chicks don't dig stalkers.
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2009 Author Posted July 7, 2009 She's not. As a general rule, chicks don't dig stalkers. Is that you in your avatar? If so you're cute.
dreamergrl Posted July 7, 2009 Posted July 7, 2009 Is that you in your avatar? If so you're cute. Run D-Lish!
Author one goal Posted July 8, 2009 Author Posted July 8, 2009 All I can say is WOW for this thread You look kinda cute:laugh: I talked to her some today. After class I walked out with her and asked her what she did over the weekend. I told her i got her text, and didnt know she had a bf, she said its ok, she talked about her other class and stuff like that.
Island Girl Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Any new advice? Other than leave her alone and move on to someone else? No.
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Yes. New advice would be to keep looking until you find somebody that actually IS interested, onegoal. Not somebody that you think is just going to take some convincing to be interested. Yuck.
Lucky_One Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Any new advice? Yes. Stop believing that a telephone number has magical significance. She gave you her number when you asked for it. Maybe she thought you wanted a study partner. Maybe she thought you wanted the number of a classmate so that you could call her with a question about an assignment if you missed class. She answered a direct question with an honest answer. "Can I get your number?" "Sure." And she answered your next direct question with an honest answer. "Want to go grab a movie?" "No. I have a bf." Give it up, dude. Assuming you aren't a troll of course. (PS. Yes, I am cute. No, I do not want to give you my number. Yes, I am in a serious relationship.)
dreamergrl Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 (PS. Yes, I am cute. No, I do not want to give you my number. Yes, I am in a serious relationship.) For once I'm glad I have not yet been called cute by a guy :laugh:
Author one goal Posted July 11, 2009 Author Posted July 11, 2009 Yes. Stop believing that a telephone number has magical significance. She gave you her number when you asked for it. Maybe she thought you wanted a study partner. Maybe she thought you wanted the number of a classmate so that you could call her with a question about an assignment if you missed class. She answered a direct question with an honest answer. "Can I get your number?" "Sure." And she answered your next direct question with an honest answer. "Want to go grab a movie?" "No. I have a bf." Give it up, dude. Assuming you aren't a troll of course. (PS. Yes, I am cute. No, I do not want to give you my number. Yes, I am in a serious relationship.) When I asked for her number I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, and just said this week was a bad week.
Bayern Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Okay now you're just going creepy stalker like. She said not interested. Just leave it at that. It's not as if she left you wondering man.... How is that creepy-stalker like? I dont' see the connection at all. EDIT: Okay, just read the thread - nevermind. one goal has made some hilarious posts and I honestly think he's messing with some of you now (in particular dreamergrl).
dreamergrl Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 How is that creepy-stalker like? I dont' see the connection at all. I have no reason why she would give you the number and then say she has a boyfriend. I can understand if you had lunch with her or something and THEN she said she had a boyfriend (another Seinfeld ), but I don't see the relation here. Maybe if you're in class it has something to do with you helping her or vice versa. Is very simple. He put her on the spot, she felt bad saying no. She then let him know that she had a boyfriend. Maybe she didn't, and just didn't want to go out with him. It's not rocket science. And it's creepy because he wont let it go. He went and started cyber stalking her. And according to his past threads.. he has a stalking issue. See the connection?
Bayern Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Is very simple. He put her on the spot, she felt bad saying no. She then let him know that she had a boyfriend. Maybe she didn't, and just didn't want to go out with him. It's not rocket science. And it's creepy because he wont let it go. He went and started cyber stalking her. And according to his past threads.. he has a stalking issue. See the connection? When I posted that, I didn't know he asked her out in person first. I thought she gave him the number. I need to read threads BEFORE posting Who he is doesn't make it stalking. You seem to think past experience makes an event change from one thing to another. If you know her from your class there is nothing wrong with adding her as a friend on myspace or facebook. While doing that he may have seen she was in a relationship. I don't see the connection because there is no connection.
Trimmer Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 Who he is doesn't make it stalking. You seem to think past experience makes an event change from one thing to another. Technically, I agree - it doesn't change the objective nature of his behavior toward her thus far. However, if he's shown a strong tendency to "not get it" and push things too far in the past, and is showing the beginnings of that same tendency in this situation (i.e. not getting that "has a boyfriend" means "no chance of asking her out"), then it's not out of line to point out that the thought process he's sharing with us may once again lead him over the line. And that is informed by his past experience.
dreamergrl Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 When I posted that, I didn't know he asked her out in person first. I thought she gave him the number. I need to read threads BEFORE posting Who he is doesn't make it stalking. You seem to think past experience makes an event change from one thing to another. If you know her from your class there is nothing wrong with adding her as a friend on myspace or facebook. While doing that he may have seen she was in a relationship. I don't see the connection because there is no connection. He didn't add her. He stated that he checked her profile to see if she had a boyfriend. Which it said she did. Then he has been going on and on about the freaking number. Wont let go. Combine that with past stalking issues (again, read all the threads) ... I think Creepy sums it up pretty good.
yonex Posted July 12, 2009 Posted July 12, 2009 He didn't add her. He stated that he checked her profile to see if she had a boyfriend. Which it said she did. Then he has been going on and on about the freaking number. Wont let go. Combine that with past stalking issues (again, read all the threads) ... I think Creepy sums it up pretty good. I'm not sure if we understand what stalking is. I didn't read his other threads but I've done stuff thats more in that category when this one girl messed with my head. Check out my thread "love makes you do crazy thing"
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