Joker77 Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 I thought my world had been destroyed. The girl I had been with for almost six months just upped and ended our relationship. I haven't spoken with her since, and you know what? I couldn't be happier. I joined a gym two days later and have been there 4-5 days for the past six months. I've gained ten pounds of muscle and look and feel great! I just want the ones out there who are going through heartache to know that it does get better. It just depends on what you do with your time in order to get the healing process started faster. I'm still single, but I have no problem with it. I realize that I really didn't care about the girl I was with as much as I was more worried about being alone. Well I've realized that I'd rather be alone than be with someone who I didn't really care about in the first place. Best of luck to all of you who are going through tough times. It DOES get better.
asuman Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 Tis true. Today's the day I found out my "ex" has a new boyfriend. But today's also the day I bought my airline tickets to Denver, for the mountain I'll be climbing with a friend 4 weeks from now.
Author Joker77 Posted July 3, 2009 Author Posted July 3, 2009 Tis true. Today's the day I found out my "ex" has a new boyfriend. But today's also the day I bought my airline tickets to Denver, for the mountain I'll be climbing with a friend 4 weeks from now. I found out she was with a new guy about three months ago. It was kind of a shock at first, but then it kind of wore off. I knew the girl was lying to me the night she broke up with me that she "wasn't looking for anyone else". I loved her daughter to no end. She did me a favor by leaving. I don't want to be in a relationship just to be in a relationship, and that's what I was doing. It funny though because this new guy is 11 years older than her and was supposedly still married but in the process of getting a divorce. She was mad that he was still married. Then you had me on the other hand who had no baggage. I guess people with baggage need other people with baggage.
Exit Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Congrats on your healing. I was a little worried at first seeing that you were here posting on the 6 month anniversary, I wasn't expecting a positive message to be found inside. It's been 2 months for me and I'm finally letting go. I've also been working out a lot but more importantly, finally trying to back it up with proper nutrition. Might even go back to school for health science and nutrition. I wonder the same thing about myself, maybe I just hate being alone. Right now, it's still fresh enough that I'm convinced I loved her, but as time goes on maybe I will realize otherwise. Maybe I just loved the idea of being with someone who SEEMED to be committed. Maybe I liked that one part of my life seemed to be figured out while the rest of it was falling apart. Maybe I only want her back to help me ignore the rest of my problems again.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 I wonder the same thing about myself, maybe I just hate being alone. Right now, it's still fresh enough that I'm convinced I loved her, but as time goes on maybe I will realize otherwise. Maybe I just loved the idea of being with someone who SEEMED to be committed. Maybe I liked that one part of my life seemed to be figured out while the rest of it was falling apart. Maybe I only want her back to help me ignore the rest of my problems again. I hate this side of psychology. That's why I majored in personality disorders.
Exit Posted July 3, 2009 Posted July 3, 2009 Well, like I said, I don't feel that way yet. Just speculation. Maybe I will NEED to feel that way eventually just to move on, even if it isn't true. Need to convince myself I didn't want her.
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