boogieboy Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Let's just hope she doesn't pop out a kid or two with this guy. I've seen this kind of scatology go on for decades. Religious my ass. Sorry to be blunt. I deal with these kind of aholes every day in business. Talk out both sides of their mouth and their ass too. Sunshine leaks everywhere. Success through manipulation. Miracle of the modern world. And then I go read the backstory: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1980668&postcount=1 Slap-happy tonight.... Yeah after readin that thread, MJ is saying the exact same thing she said in January, with the same story, which is shes ready to be cheated on again, and forgive him for it. You'll never be able to trust him MJ, because its impossible. Trusting him is like fighting your instincts. Its like tryin to eat your own poop, your body wont let you do it.
2sure Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Just wanted to note: She explains to him that HE has hurt HER... And SHE ends comforting HIM.
sugarmomma Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Yea that post from January says it all. Sounds like one big orgy! Sje's knows exactly what kind of person she is dealing with and therefore needs to brace herself for the pain that will inevitably follow. Classic case of Good Sex in a Bad Relationship. That damn Dopamine!! Been there done that!!
Rooster_DAR Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Well IMO a manipulator is only a manipulator if you allow them to manipulate you, if that makes sense. I don't let any (so called) smooth talker pull one over on me, but I'm a pretty charming guy myself I think:cool: And what's with guys that are charmers being cheaters, I hate cheating and stand vehemently against it. Let's be careful with the generalizations ladies. Cheers!
dreamergrl Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 Something tells me OP is a repeat offender of allowing this behavior, and not just with this guy. OP, you do understand that he manipulated you into feeling bad for him, right? He's cheated you. His friends told you what type of person he is. He uses emotional blackmail on you when you try to stick up for him. He gets you to comfort him when it should be he who is comforting you. Honestly - you will find no help here until you're ready to leave this loser.
torranceshipman Posted July 2, 2009 Posted July 2, 2009 He sounds pretty immature to me. He needs to grow up. It sounds suspect to me that he's already cheated, that he's put you in a situation where you have to live with his ex-hook up, etc (that's really horrible!)...and that he just charms you into making up with him, rather than showing you the type of behavior that you need to see to really make you feel fine. He probably thinks he's a master charmer, and guys don't like him because it sounds like he is scamming on their girlfriends - NOT cool. I agree with other posters that he sounds insecure and needs too much attention, and I really think he is very disrespectful to you. I'd just keep your eyes open and in the case that you hear about him cheating again, LEAVE him - do not listen to his excuses any more.
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