Un-Conventional Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 What Up, I'm new to the forum. I was having a interesting conversation at work today, and it was about how women prefer to be approached by men, which led to what women really would like to hear. Obviously women don't wanna hear BS lines or game, as they "supposedly" can see right through it. So back to the original question "What Do Women Really Wanna Hear" and I'm talking beyond "Hi, my name is..." Obviously this question is mainly addressed towards women, but guys are welcome to comment too (not like I could stop you anyways)
Surfer Dude Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 Women need a guy who can lead emotionally stimulating and exciting conversation. If a guy can push their buttons in a conversation, he is doing it right. No woman will want to spend time with a boring guy. Have you seen all the boring guys asking tons of work related questions, boring women to death, talking about complete junk when women really crave emotional stimulation? Don't be a boring guy. Be an interesting, exciting guy. I knew a guy who had really interesting openers. While most chumps would try to "seduce" women with silly lines and make complete fools out of themselves, he'd approach and simply say: Guy: "Do you like horses?" Girl: "Huh? what?" Guy: "Horses... do you like them?" Girl: Yeah/no/whatever ... And he'd continue the conversation from there, talking about horses. Then he'd talk about a prince she was always imagining, riding a horse. Etc. It worked wonderfully. POINT IS: DON'T be a boring guy. Be different. Be interesting.
bac Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 If it is your first approach or close to that, it does not matter what you say or do, just express that you are interested in her. We would love to hear anything that would convince us that you are attracted to us. Just do smth and do not be afraid of rejection or asking for phone#. You need to do many approaches with some girls and it is normal behavoir of them with males.
carhill Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 Since I like to travel, I generally will converse about places and cultures I've experienced and inquire of the ladies I meet about similar experiences they might have had. Rarely, at least in my age category (50), does a decent, interesting conversation not begin. Even folks who haven't seen the world have an interest in it. Two key things for me are I'm really interested in where I go and what I do and I tend to paint a picture of the culture and place, down to flowers in the window boxes and the dog peeing on the sidewalk and the bars I've stumbled in and out of. I don't do pick-up lines (never have) so I just share myself. Some are interested; some not. Fine by me. Big world; lots to do
D-Lish Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 A guy could have the most interesting things to say- and I might enjoy having a conversation with him because of that... BUT- if I am not drawn to his look, it won't get beyond a short conversation.
carhill Posted July 1, 2009 Posted July 1, 2009 BUT- if I am not drawn to his look, it won't get beyond a short conversation. That's healthy; to be honest, I never even think of that (getting 'beyond'). Signals
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