Leveller Posted July 8, 2009 Posted July 8, 2009 In the days before mobile phones and the internet I fought for an ex. I had hurt her, she then hurt me after I chased, begged, pleaded and five years later we got back together for six months from an olive branch (letter) she sent. The issue/s at the heart of us could never go away though (a miscarriage) but not for one day do I regret not making my feelings known. I would fight on now with my present ex but realise I need to make a strategic retreat rather than, as one of the other posters evocatively said, 'mount a Napoleonic Campaign'. If your SO still has feelings for you beat the retreat, regroup your forces and decide on your campaign. Don't get a restraining order though and don't so an Ahab.
hrtbrk hotel tenant Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 i am fighting for my ex now...we had a lovely date in the park and we went to the movies afterwards she said she had a wonderful time now i am just stepping back a little bit doin the NC thing for real this time see if it wrks
thebigrabbit14 Posted July 9, 2009 Posted July 9, 2009 yea i talked to mine today we hung out on the 4th the fighting thing doesnt work so well she just gets mad that i try to pressure her so she said we can hang out next week so im going nc and seeing if she will contact me to hang out other then that i think im done
thebigrabbit14 Posted July 11, 2009 Posted July 11, 2009 anyways mine contacted me today via fb message and said her phone is broken and that "im hanging out with you next week so dont be all sad ok?" she prob got a bit suprised that i wasnt texting her every couple hours who knows maybe she missed it so i just said okay
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